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Healthy Relationships
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Healthy Relationships Launch Boundaries, assertiveness skills, not being a bystander, responding to harassment Grade 7-10 Compiled by N. Chelsom District Sexual Health Coordinator, 2018

BOFFIN FUNKY TUNES BE PRIVATE (don’t share other people’s stories, this is for your age group) RESPECT OTHERS (personal space, differences, diversities) ‘INTERESTING’ No “eww” or “gross” NO PERSONAL QUESTIONS ALL OTHER QUESTIONS ARE OK! THINK LIKE A SCIENTIST, use correct terms for body parts Ground RULES

RELATIONSHIPS THE WAY YOU ARE CONNECTED TO OTHER PEOPLE

EACH RELATIONSHIP NEEDS THESE QUALITIES STRANGERS RESPECT, PATIENCE, KINDNESS DEPENDABLE, LISTENING, HONESTY TRUST, ENJOYMENT, INTIMACY SELF RESPECT, SELF CARE, POSTIVE SELF TALK Intimacy: sharing of thoughts and feelings and experiences

Healthy relationships take skill and practice! Talk about how you would demonstrate these healthy qualities at each level Talk about who teaches people these skills Besides our family, how else can we learn the skills to have healthy relationships

UNHEALTHY RELATIONSHIPS https://needhelpnow.ca/pdfs/NHN_relationships_en.pdf

HOW DO YOU KNOW WHEN IT TURNS UNHEALTHY Gut feelings Instincts Early warning signs Little voice in you Put yourself in their shoes (empathy) Short animation: what is teasing and harassment https://youtu.be/nKKDsIuMaKU 20YY

Sexual Assault or Abuse or Harassment Sexual Assault or Abuse or Harassment? Watch this short animation: https://youtu.be/w8gslq85Xsc -What are some examples of sexual assault or sexual abuse in the video? -What does giving consent look like? -What doesn’t it look like? How do you ask for consent? -What are some examples of situations in which a person cannot consent? -If someone has been sexually assaulted or abused, who should they talk to?

Data A Data B Data C

If any of these things happens to a child, it is never their fault If any of these things happens to a child, it is never their fault! Grown ups and teenagers know the rules about these things It can be confusing and hard for a child to report it. It’s ok to report even years later! Counselors, safe adults, teachers are all good people to report to Model how to access: -Kids Help Phone website and 1-800-668-6868, -VI Crisis Line

Consent What does giving consent look like? “yes!” “Sure!” “ok!” “I totally want to!” What doesn’t it look like? Silence, nodding head, looking away How do you ask for consent? “Would you like to..” “can I…” “do you like….” “how are you feeling…” “is it ok if we…” Check body language: look at the message their body is telling you! -crossed arms, looking away, covering their body, ignoring you, mumbling, sighing Remember you can change your mind at any time about consent, and consenting to one thing doesn’t mean you consent to other things! Short animation about consent: TEA Consent Video

What are some examples of situations in which a person cannot consent What are some examples of situations in which a person cannot consent? -Under age -drunk -high -feeling pressured -they are under someone’s power/control *see ‘Is That Legal?!’ for age of consent chart on page 4

HOW TO STAND UP, BE ASSERTIVE, NOT A BYSTANDER Being assertive, passive, aggressive: which one are you? https://youtu.be/9_0IJRaaXkM Be more than a bystander series https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1QyJ-aQPbYE&list=PLs3LiiUL_7XQTfwUwb4wytiwAs_5ZMAwm

TRICKS TO BECOME MORE ASSERTIVE

QUICK WAYS TO NOT BE A BYSTANDER

Large image slide Scenarios Hearing a sexual comment and jokes that make you feel weird 2. Someone trying to flirt with you and you feel uncomfortable 3. A classmate who always bumps into you, brushes against your body and you don’t want it 4. A friend tries to get you to watch something on the computer that’s inappropriate, disgusting, or not for kids 5. An older teen is trying to get your friend to do something dangerous or inappropriate 6. Someone you really like is pressuring you to do things you’re not ready for Large image slide FUNKY TUNES Listen to your gut feelings!

WHERE TO GET HELP Counsellor, teachers, safe adult https://sexual-education.sd68.bc.ca/teens/help/ KIDS HELP PHONE VI CRISIS IF YOU’RE NOT SURE…IT’S BETTER TO BE ON THE SAFE SIDE…ASK FOR HELP!

For more excellent teaching resources check out https://sexual-education.sd68.bc.ca https://www.facebook.com/sd68PHE www.amaze.org www.needhelpnow.ca Is That Legal?!