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The secrets of Love The guide for true relationship Dr Yaron Ziv MSW. Ph.D Tel-Aviv University Maof center for human development
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Fantasy and reality We run our lives through out reality and fantasy all the time Reality forces us to live through facts without denial
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Fantasy and reality Fantasy is the ability to live in imagination with no connection to reality Healthy life is the combination of these two elements. We need them both
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Fantasy and reality If we live all the time just through reality life is perceived as a burden. We lose hope and we become depressed
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Fantasy and reality If we live all the time just through fantasy, we become detached from reality, we don’t take responsibility – we run away to “drugs”
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Fantasy and reality We need both reality and fantasy for our emotional balance We need to recognize the reality and yet to give ourselves “legitimate" escapes like hope and imagination
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The child and the adult in us In any one of us there are three major roles: The “child like” role The “adult-mature" role The “Parent” role Child like Adult like Parent like
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The child and the adult in us The “child like” role is in charge of vitality, enthusiasm, expressing emotions, no inhibitions,authenticity directness, spontaneity etc.
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The child and the adult in us The “adult-mature” role is in charge of rationalism, logical thinking, restraining, cost benefit thinking, analyzing, realism, negotiating, patient, including, empathetic.
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The child –adult Balance When the “mature” part domineers the “child” part, we become very efficient, rationally thinking, logically operating but with no passion,with no vitality, no aliveness!!!
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