1. CatholicCare Sydney It’s easy to use the official CatholicCare Sydney PowerPoint template. PowerPoint Template CatholicCare Sydney Getting Started Choose a Slide Layout > On the Home Tab, click the down arrow next to New Slide and choose the type of slide you want to use. There are two title slides (one generic, one for your service area), a section subtitle slide, a content slide (to add text, pictures, graphs etc.) and a Final ‘Thank You’ slide. Add your content > To customise the text, picture and graphics for your presentation click in the content box for the element you want to change. For example, if you want to add a new ‘Presentation Title’ click the text box and type in the name of your presentation. Save it > Make sure your presentation is saved as.pptx so you can open and edit it later. MAKE SURE YOU DELETE THIS SLIDE SO IT DOESN’T APPEAR IN YOUR PRESENTATION

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3. My Kids and Me – 7 week program for parents whose children are in statutory care Influenced by the work of Milton Erickson, John Gottman, Dan Siegel and Circle of Security Psycho-educational approach using metaphors as a tool for change within an attachment framework Highly interactive and creative

4. CatholicCare Sydney Developed between 2008 and 2011 by a multi disciplinary team of psychologists, social workers, parent educators and out of home care workers Partnership between CatholicCare Sydney and CatholicCare Wollongong Evaluated in 2013 by The Centre for Child Protection; University of South Australia Designed and published in 2014 Facilitator training rolled out 2014 onwards

5. CatholicCare Sydney Main reasons for referral are: Adult substance abuse Domestic violence Mental health concerns Other presenting issues are: Own history of child protection and removal Refugees with minimal support Homelessness Multiple children removedbeing removed

6. CatholicCare Sydney “Every person you will ever meet has infinite worth (regardless of our body mind or talents). We each matter and we matter absolutely” Frank Kimper and Kent Hoffman Circle of Security

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8. The Power of Metaphor

9. CatholicCare Sydney Facilitators “Supervision is necessary to ‘hold’ them so facilitators are supported when they are ‘hanging over the edge’ with the participants” Brave Ability to be comfortable in discomfort Be a good role model Able to co-facilitate and be a capable group facilitator Non-defensive Open, humble, kind, caring, calm, flexible, patient Able to absorb emotions slowly Able to repair broken trust Feel safe (so that they can provide safety for the participants) Have a sense of humour Hold conflicting drives Outraged by the parents’ situations Passionate about My Kids and Me

10. CatholicCare Sydney 6 Month Follow Up Phone Calls Felt supported “…it helped knowing that people cared. Many who attend lack support” Felt that My Kids and Me was motivating, educational and that the legal information was useful “it wasn’t confusing and the people were nice” Didn’t feel embarrassed to ask, they felt comfortable in a supportive environment which was “not pressured but calm” Found the facilitators to be knowledgeable and understanding “They don’t judge but treat everyone equally. Instructors were wonderful” Learnt to be assertive and became able to move away from anger “I don’t start with a negative view now, am more open” Became able to acknowledge that help was needed and were able to get it Learnt that it is necessary to look after themselves “Things happened which you can’t undo so make a new start”.

11. CatholicCare Sydney Participant Reflections “I can’t change the past. Everyone makes mistakes it’s what you do in the present to not make the same mistakes in the future.” “I have learnt to take time to reflect and appreciate all the good/positive goals you have achieved during the time your baby’s been in care, also I’ve learnt more communication skills, how to deal with sad emotions before turning angry and erupting and also emotions, especially with young kids/babies”

12. CatholicCare Sydney I am different since completing MKM. My child returned and I am being straight, dealing with my own feelings, I was taught to be kind to myself. Learnt about paths so my decisions are clearer; I can choose to change direction and know what’s going to happen.