Presentation on theme: "“Defective Teens – NOT!!!” Based on: “The Seven Habits of Highly Effective Teens" by Sean Covey."— Presentation transcript:
“Defective Teens – NOT!!!” Based on: “The Seven Habits of Highly Effective Teens" by Sean Covey
The 7 Habits of Highly Defective Teens: Habit 1: React. Habit 2: Begin with No End in Mind. Habit 3: Put First Things Last. Habit 4: Think Win- Lose. Habit 5: Seek First to Talk, Then Pretend to Listen. Habit 6: Don't Cooperate Habit 7: Wear Yourself Out.
“As you can see, the habits listed above are recipes for disaster. Yet many of us indulge in them...regularly (me included). And, given this, it's no wonder that life in this world can really stink at times.” --Sean Covey Defective Teens
What are the 7 Habits of Highly Effective Teens? Habit 1: Be Proactive. –Take responsibility for your life. Habit 2: Begin with the End in Mind. –Define your mission and goals in life. Habit 3: Put First Things First. –Prioritize, and do the most important things first. Habit 4: Think Win-Win. –Have an everyone-can-win attitude. Habit 5: Seek First to Understand, Then to Be Understood. –Listen to people sincerely. Habit 6: Synergize. –Work together to achieve more. Habit 7: Sharpen the Saw. –Renew yourself regularly.
Habit 1: Be Proactive Listen to your language Victimitis virus Proactive pays Circle of control Setbacks to triumphs reactive proactive
Be Proactive Rise above Change agent Proactive muscles Can-do Push pause Tools in action
Habit 2: Begin With the End In Mind Crossroads Who’s leading? –Personal mission statement Your talents Three watch outs –Labels –All over syndrome –Wrong wall
Begin With the End In Mind Go for goal –Count the cost –Put it in pen –Just do it! –Use momentous moments –Rope up Goals in action Weakness to strengths
Habit 3: Put First Things First Pack more into life –Procrastinator –Prioritizer –Yes-man –Slacker Use a planner (agenda!) –Rocks story Procrastinator Prioritizer SlackerYes-Man
Put First Things First Courage zone –Vs. Comfort zone –Fear and decisions –Rising after falling –Hard moments –Peer pressure Ingredient of success
Relationship Bank Account Keeping promises Small acts of kindness Be loyal Listen Say you are sorry Set clear expectations
Habit 4: Think Win-Win Win-lose, –totem pole Lose-win, –doormat Lose-lose, – downward spiral Win-win, –all you can eat buffet