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2. Romans 12:17-21 Do not repay anyone evil for evil. Be careful to do what is right in the eyes of everybody. 18 If it is possible, as far as it depends on you, live at peace with everyone. 19 Do not take revenge, my friends, but leave room for God's wrath, for it is written: "It is mine to avenge; I will repay," says the Lord. 20 On the contrary: "If your enemy is hungry, feed him; if he is thirsty, give him something to drink. In doing this, you will heap burning coals on his head." 21 Do not be overcome by evil, but overcome evil with good.

3. FORGIVENESS: OUR OBLIGATION Our Obligation

4. FORGIVENESS A.Forgiveness is at the very foundation of our Christian faith. B.Even though forgiveness is at the very center of our faith, it is the one thing we seem to have the most difficulty doing. C.Sometimes it seems as if Christians are the most unforgiving people... D.When studying forgiveness, we first must see that:

5. I. GOD HAS FORGIVEN US. A. When God forgave us of our sins: 1. The Bible says that He remembered them no more. (Heb 8:12) "For I will be merciful to their unrighteousness, and their sins and their iniquities will I remember no more." 2. This means that they no longer exist. B. Only God has the ability to take away sins. 1. When He forgives us, they are actually removed. 2. This is why the Jews said that Jesus blasphemed when He said, "your sins are forgiven." (Mat 9:2) "And, behold, they brought to him a man sick of the palsy, lying on a bed: and Jesus seeing their faith said unto the sick of the palsy; son, be of good cheer; thy sins be forgiven thee.”

6. II. WE MUST FORGIVE OTHERS. A. When we forgive others: 1. We don't actually remove the sin like God does, but we imitate God by refusing to hold the sin against them. 2. When we forgive: a. That means we will not bring it up to that person again. b. We will not bring it up to anyone else. c. We will not bring it up to ourselves and dwell on it.

7. II. WE MUST FORGIVE OTHERS. 3. This sounds like a fairly easy thing to do, but why do we have such a hard time doing it? a. Because we want to punish those who hurt us. (vs.17) Man's heart is sinful, and the first thing that he desires to do is to strike back when he is hurt or violated. (example: someone hits us, cheats us, lies, etc...) b. Our pride keeps us from accepting the wrong done to us by forgiving. c. We don't have enough faith to let God handle the situation, so we try to handle it ourselves.

8. II. WE MUST FORGIVE OTHERS. B. How many times must we forgive someone for sinning against us? Peter asked Jesus the same question, implying that a person only deserved so many chances. What was the reply of Jesus? An infinite number of times! (70x7) Another good answer could be "you forgive the other person as many times as God has forgiven you.”

9. III. WHAT DOES UNFORGIVENESS DO TO US? A. It keeps us in bitterness. 1. We keep turning over and over this hurt in our mind, always keeping it fresh, always ready to strike out again. 2. It is a vicious cycle. 3. A bitter person is always angry about something. B. It keeps us in bondage to past mistakes. 1. If we don't forgive, we are always living in some past hurt. 2. We constantly re-live it in our minds. 3. We never seem to get free from the anger. (even when we want to.)

10. III. WHAT DOES UNFORGIVENESS DO TO US? C. It keeps us in guilt. 1. A Christian who lives in the bondage of unforgiveness is also living in guilt. 2. He knows that he must forgive, but he also knows that he doesn't want to. 3. He carries this weight around with him, not being able to get rid of it. D. It is a cause problems for us. 1. Physically (such as ulcers) 2. Mentally (sustained anger will cause you to become mentally sick) 3. And spiritually (unforgiveness will cause you to drift away from God)

11. IV. HOW DO WE FORGIVE SOMEONE THAT HURT US SO BADLY? A. (vs.20) We stop thinking of those who hurt us as enemies, and we start to honestly seek God for their good. 1. We need to earnestly pray for blessings in their lives. 2. It is very difficult to be angry or unforgiving towards someone whom you are earnestly praying for! B. We look to God as our example. 1. Could you forgive someone who killed your only son? God did. 2. He does not allow the sin to be remembered anymore.

12. IV. HOW DO WE FORGIVE SOMEONE THAT HURT US SO BADLY? C. We look to Jesus as our example. 1. What did Jesus say while he was hanging on the Cross? 2. While He was experiencing the worst pain a person could experience? 3. While the blood was dripping from His hands, and His flesh was tearing at the nails? 4. He said, "Father, forgive them, for they know not what they do.“

13. WHAT ABOUT YOUR FORGIVENESS? A.If Jesus could forgive those who were killing Him, we must forgive those who have hurt us. B.If we wish to be spiritually healthy, if we wish to be free of condemnation, then we must forgive those who hurt us. C.Do you need to experience the forgiveness of God tonight? D.Do you need to demonstrate the forgiveness of God tonight?

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