1. Why is Forgiveness so Important?

2. Problems in our lives that stem directly from a lack of forgiveness:

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4. 1. Stress (holding inside bitterness and anger) 2. Self-inflicted re-injury (re- experiencing pain by reliving the event)

5. 3. No more love (withdrawing and failing to love others) 4. Bitterness (affecting one’s disposition)

6. 5. Perpetual conflict (anticipating more hurt; staying on the defensive)

7. 6. Walls that keep others out (become anxious and threatened when personal intimacy becomes possible)

8. Indicators that reveal we may have unforgiveness in our hearts toward someone:someone:

9. 1. being harsh toward others 2. being demanding 3. being resentful

10. 4. finding fault easily 5. holding grudges 6. negative feelings about the person when they are around 7. avoiding the person

11. Indicators that reveal we may not have forgiven ourselves for something.

12. 1. being self-critical 2. being guilt-ridden 3. being driven by “ought to’s”

13. 4. overcompensating for our own mistakes 5. pride and arrogance as a way to prove our self-worth

14. 6. irrational fears and phobias 7. keeping secrets

15. 8. building walls around ourselves 9. pushing ourselves hard 10. overly critical of others

16. Indicators that reveal we may have unforgiveness toward God:

17. 1. withdrawing from religious activities such as church attendance, Bible study and prayer. 2. anger at church people, especially leaders

18. 3. refusal to talk about religious things 4. deliberately doing things contrary to God’s laws or commands

19. 5. attempting to influence others not to be committed to God 6. sharing doubts about God with others

20. 7. depression and purposelessness