2.  Sexual contact with a child that occurs by force or in a relationship  Fondled, kissed, or held for sexual gratification  Fondled or hurt genitally while bathed  Raped or otherwise penetrated  It’s not just having sexual contact with a child  It includes non-contact offenses  Using a child in the production of a pornography  Forced to listen to excessive talk about sex  Shown sexual movies or other pornography  Having sex in front of a child

4. Trust: Intimacy Relationship & Parenting Difficulties Emotional Reactions to Sexual Abuse:  Guilt & Shame  Low self-esteem  Anxiety and fear Behavior Reactions:  Aggression  Self-harm  Criminal Activity  Substance Abuse  Suicidal Behavior  Hyper-activity  Sleep problems  Eating problems Cognitive Reactions  Denial & Dissociation

5.  Listen to your child and believe him.  Never scold your child if he approaches you with a problem  Tell him to raise his voice if he feels uncomfortable around a stranger/relative/person  Never leave your children with neighbors, friends, relatives, servants, and drivers  Spend quality time with your children  Remember that your child is your responsibility and any particular action can destroy or build the faith  Never make the child feel guilty for something he/she is not responsible for  If your child behaves strangely due to some reason discuss it with him  If your child suddenly stops socializing, talk to him  If he/she refuses to go near a specific person, do not force him

6.  Child Sexual Abuse leaves an invisible mark on a victim for life regardless if the scars are there and the offender is never seen again…….