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With Gary Karp.com www.paralysis.org Sex On Wheels Presented by Gary Karp www.moderndisability.com www.paralysis.org
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With Gary Karp.com www.paralysis.org
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With Gary Karp.com www.paralysis.org
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With Gary Karp.com www.paralysis.org Understand our sexual nature in the context of paralysis Why This Session?
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With Gary Karp.com www.paralysis.org Understand our sexual nature in the context of paralysis Discuss path to healthy, integrated sexuality Why This Session?
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With Gary Karp.com www.paralysis.org Agenda Formal Presentation
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With Gary Karp.com www.paralysis.org Agenda Formal Presentation Q&A
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Sensitive Topic With Gary Karp.com www.paralysis.org
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With Gary Karp.com www.paralysis.org Social Stereotypes People with Disabilities are Asexual
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With Gary Karp.com www.paralysis.org Sensuality & Intimacy Innate human need
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With Gary Karp.com www.paralysis.org Sensuality & Intimacy Innate human need Possible with paralysis
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With Gary Karp.com www.paralysis.org Sensuality & Intimacy Innate human need Possible with paralysis Everyone deserves love
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With Gary Karp.com www.paralysis.org Sensuality & Intimacy Innate human need Possible with paralysis Everyone deserves love There is no normal!
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Sex is Complex With Gary Karp.com www.paralysis.org
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Sex is Complex Paralysis Is Not the Whole Story With Gary Karp.com www.paralysis.org
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With Gary Karp.com www.paralysis.org Relationship CaringTrustCommunicationInterestsValuesPartnership
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With Gary Karp.com www.paralysis.org Process of Adaptation
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With Gary Karp.com www.paralysis.org Process of Adaptation Knowing Your Body
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With Gary Karp.com www.paralysis.org Process of Adaptation Knowing Your Body Willingness to Redefine
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With Gary Karp.com www.paralysis.org Process of Adaptation Knowing Your Body Willingness to Redefine Exploring Options
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With Gary Karp.com www.paralysis.org Asexuality Is an Option
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With Gary Karp.com www.paralysis.org Asexuality Is an Option But…
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With Gary Karp.com www.paralysis.org Don’t Give Up On What You Want
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With Gary Karp.com www.paralysis.org Satisfying Sex Is Possible with Paralysis
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With Gary Karp.com www.paralysis.org What Makes For Good Sex?
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With Gary Karp.com www.paralysis.org What Makes For Good Sex? Chemistry
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With Gary Karp.com www.paralysis.org What Makes For Good Sex? Chemistry Being sensual
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With Gary Karp.com www.paralysis.org What Makes For Good Sex? Chemistry Being sensual Being vulnerable
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With Gary Karp.com www.paralysis.org What Makes For Good Sex? Chemistry Being sensual Being vulnerable Communication
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With Gary Karp.com www.paralysis.org Good Sex Is NOT About One Specific Activity
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With Gary Karp.com www.paralysis.org Good Sex Is NOT About One Specific Activity There are many ways to please.
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With Gary Karp.com www.paralysis.org Good Sex Means Letting Go
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With Gary Karp.com www.paralysis.org Good Sex Means Letting Go Not if you’re holding back emotion.
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With Gary Karp.com www.paralysis.org Grieving There is real loss
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With Gary Karp.com www.paralysis.org Grieving There is real loss Part of a larger set of losses
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With Gary Karp.com www.paralysis.org Grieving There is real loss Part of a larger set of losses Individual coping styles
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With Gary Karp.com www.paralysis.org Grieving There is real loss Part of a larger set of losses Individual coping styles Emotions want out
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With Gary Karp.com www.paralysis.org Grieving Feels like weakness Fear it won’t end Path to integration With Your Partner
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With Gary Karp.com www.paralysis.org Are You Willing To......let your sexuality be different?
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With Gary Karp.com www.paralysis.org Are You Willing To......let your sexuality be different?...let go (mostly) of what you can’t do?
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With Gary Karp.com www.paralysis.org Are You Willing To......let your sexuality be different?...let go (mostly) of what you can’t do?...be creative and find new options?
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With Gary Karp.com www.paralysis.org Redefinition Sex = Intercourse Pornstar Athletic Intercourse
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With Gary Karp.com www.paralysis.org Passing Wanting It To Be “Like It Was.”
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With Gary Karp.com www.paralysis.org Passing Guarantees frustration Wanting It To Be “Like It Was.”
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With Gary Karp.com www.paralysis.org Passing Guarantees frustration Can’t be your true self Wanting It To Be “Like It Was.”
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With Gary Karp.com www.paralysis.org Passing Guarantees frustration Can’t be your true self Gratifying sexuality is impossible Wanting It To Be “Like It Was.”
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With Gary Karp.com www.paralysis.org Does It HAVE To Be Like It Was?
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With Gary Karp.com www.paralysis.org Does It HAVE To Be Like It Was? …at the expense of any sex life?
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With Gary Karp.com www.paralysis.org Redefine Orgasm O O
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With Gary Karp.com www.paralysis.org Redefine Orgasm Heightened response
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With Gary Karp.com www.paralysis.org Redefine Orgasm Heightened response Not about intensity
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With Gary Karp.com www.paralysis.org Redefine Orgasm Heightened response Not about intensity Out of your mind / in your body
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With Gary Karp.com www.paralysis.org Redefine Orgasm Heightened response Not about intensity Out of your mind / in your body More acceptance, more pleasure
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Anatomy T10–L2 With Gary Karp.com www.paralysis.org
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With Gary Karp.com www.paralysis.org Find Your Own Body No one knows but you
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With Gary Karp.com www.paralysis.org Find Your Own Body No one knows but you Take time to explore
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With Gary Karp.com www.paralysis.org Find Your Own Body No one knows but you Take time to explore Your assignment...!
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With Gary Karp.com www.paralysis.org Body Image
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With Gary Karp.com www.paralysis.org Body Image Atrophy
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With Gary Karp.com www.paralysis.org Body Image Atrophy Scars
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With Gary Karp.com www.paralysis.org Body Image Atrophy Scars Quad Belly
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With Gary Karp.com www.paralysis.org Body Image Atrophy Scars Quad Belly First revelation is scary
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With Gary Karp.com www.paralysis.org Options Kissing is Criminally Under-Appreciated!
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Options With Gary Karp.com www.paralysis.org
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With Gary Karp.com www.paralysis.org Options Oral Sex
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With Gary Karp.com www.paralysis.org Options Striptease
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With Gary Karp.com www.paralysis.org Options Toys
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With Gary Karp.com www.paralysis.org Options “Alternative” Sexuality
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With Gary Karp.com www.paralysis.org Options Re-Tune
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With Gary Karp.com www.paralysis.org Options Re-Tune Turn Up the Sensitivity
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With Gary Karp.com www.paralysis.org Intercourse Remains an Option For Most People Women
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With Gary Karp.com www.paralysis.org Men Intercourse Remains an Option For Most People
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With Gary Karp.com www.paralysis.org Intercourse Not Only About Sensation
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Re-Order the Top 10 With Gary Karp.com www.paralysis.org
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With Gary Karp.com www.paralysis.org Anatomy Bowel & Bladder
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With Gary Karp.com www.paralysis.org Existing Partners
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With Gary Karp.com www.paralysis.org Existing Partners Shared grieving
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With Gary Karp.com www.paralysis.org Existing Partners Shared grieving Reveals the foundation
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With Gary Karp.com www.paralysis.org Existing Partners Shared grieving Reveals the foundation Partnering through changes
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With Gary Karp.com www.paralysis.org Existing Partners Shared grieving Reveals the foundation Partnering through changes Paralysis and divorce
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With Gary Karp.com www.paralysis.org New Partners Attracting One
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With Gary Karp.com www.paralysis.org New Partners Show up Attracting One
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With Gary Karp.com www.paralysis.org New Partners Show up Chemistry Attracting One
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With Gary Karp.com www.paralysis.org New Partners Adjustments
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With Gary Karp.com www.paralysis.org New Partners Adjustments Grieve your disability
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With Gary Karp.com www.paralysis.org New Partners Adjustments Grieve your disability Guilt
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With Gary Karp.com www.paralysis.org New Partners Adjustments Grieve your disability Guilt Equal Pleasure Rule
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With Gary Karp.com www.paralysis.org The “Talk”
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With Gary Karp.com www.paralysis.org Parenting
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Fatherhood With Gary Karp.com www.paralysis.org
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Motherhood With Gary Karp.com www.paralysis.org
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With Gary Karp.com www.paralysis.org Be Healthy
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With Gary Karp.com www.paralysis.org Be Healthy Be attractive
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With Gary Karp.com www.paralysis.org Be Healthy Be attractive Show you care about yourself
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With Gary Karp.com www.paralysis.org Be Healthy Be attractive Show you care about yourself Optimize / preserve energy
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With Gary Karp.com www.paralysis.org Be Careful
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With Gary Karp.com www.paralysis.org Be Careful Skin breakdown
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With Gary Karp.com www.paralysis.org Be Careful Skin breakdown Catheters
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With Gary Karp.com www.paralysis.org Be Careful Skin breakdown Catheters Safe Sex!!
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Create the Setting With Gary Karp.com www.paralysis.org
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With Gary Karp.com www.paralysis.org Enjoy the Adventure
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With Gary Karp.com www.paralysis.org Sex On Wheels Presented by Gary Karp www.moderndisability.com www.paralysis.org
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