1. “ There is little sense in attempting to change external conditions, you must first change inner beliefs, then outer conditions will change accordingly” –Brian Adams

2. Self- Esteem

3. Why do you think self-esteem is so important? On your white board answer this questions

4. You Tube Video TED TALK – Meet yourself

5. Why is Self-Esteem Important? How we feel about ourselves can influence how we live our lives. It affects the quality of our relationships. More confortable asking for help. Do better in school because you believe you can accomplish your goals. Allows you to accept yourself and live life to the fullest.

6. Steve & Julio Steve's mind wanders as he does his homework. "I'm never going to do well on this history test," he thinks. "My dad's right, I'm just like him — I'll never amount to much." Distracted, he looks down and thinks how skinny his legs are. "Ugh," he says to himself. "I bet the football coach won't even let me try out when he sees what a wimp I am." Julio is studying for the same history test as Steve, and he's also not too fond of the subject. But that's where the similarity ends. Julio has a completely different outlook. He's more likely to think, "OK, history again, what a pain. Thank goodness I'm acing the subject I really love — math." And when Julio thinks about the way he looks, it's also a lot more positive. Although he is shorter and skinnier than Steve, Julio is less likely to blame or criticize his body and more likely to think, "I may be skinny, but I can really run. I'd be a good addition to the football team."

7. Self- Esteem Defined We all have a mental picture of who we are, how we look, what we’re good at, & what our weaknesses might be Self-image? What is it? How does self-image relate to self-esteem? On your white board answer the question

8. Self- Image is… Used to refer to a person’s mental picture of himself or herself. Based on interactions we have with other people and our life experiences. This “mental picture” contributes to self esteem Dove Real Beauty Sketches http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=litXW91UauE

9. Self-Esteem is… About how much we feel valued, loved, accepted, and thought well of by others — and how much we value, love, and accept ourselves. Healthy self-esteem are able to feel good about themselves, appreciate their own worth, and take pride in their abilities, skills, and accomplishments. Low self-esteem may feel as if no one will like them or accept them or that they can't do well in anything. We all experience problems with self-esteem at certain times in our lives — especially during our teens when we're figuring out who we are and where we fit in the world. Everyone's self-image changes over time, self-esteem is not fixed for life. So if you feel that your self-esteem isn't all it could be, you can improve it.

10. Self-Esteem Problems What do you think causes self-esteem problems? On your white board answer the question

11. 2 Things in Particular 1. How others see or treat us 2. How we see ourselves

12. You Tube Tony Porter – A Call to Men What are your thoughts? Fill in the sheet

13. Society’s Influence On Self-Esteem: Men The Mask You Live In http://www.upworthy.com/theres-something- absolutely-wrong-with-what-we-do-to-boys-before- they-grow-into-men?g=2

14. Society’s Influence On Self-Esteem: Women Miss Representation http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=S5pM1fW6hNs

15. References http://kidshealth.org/teen/your_mind/mental_health/self _esteem.html?tracking=T_RelatedArticle# http://kidshealth.org/teen/your_mind/mental_health/self _esteem.html?tracking=T_RelatedArticle#