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Washington Area Lacrosse Officials Association
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The customer isn’t always right. But they are always the customer.
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Safety Direct Customer Contact Supervision Management
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At the point of impact, a single employee “represents” the whole organization for better or worse. What kind of representative do you want to be remembered as?
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How many people are told about a negative interaction? It has been estimated that seventeen persons are told about a single negative interaction that is seen by only one person
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Public events have the potential for getting out of hand Verbal Judo is a well established method of providing personnel with professional communication skills Knowing how to “redirect a person’s behavior with words” is an important tool for keeping everyone safe
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People want to be treated with respect and dignity People would rather be asked than told People want to know why they are being asked People want to make their own choice, given options instead of threats People want a second chance
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We treat people like ladies and gentlemen, not necessarily because they are, BUT BECAUSE WE ARE.
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Principle of Judo itself-using the energy of others to maintain control of the situation Enables officials to safely manage the game using appropriate presence and words as options Communication principles and tactics to generate cooperation and gain voluntary compliance under stressful situations
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Making Initial Contact Active Listening Managing Verbal Resistance Moving Beyond Words
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Treat others as you would like to be treated under the same circumstances
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Physical Facial Expressions Attitude Mannerism Speech Profanities Tone and Volume Verbal Parting Shots
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An appropriate greeting-ask for their time “May I speak with you?” Explain why you are initiating contact “I want to talk to you about…” If they are doing something they shouldn’t be doing, find out why “You seem to be doing…., is there a reason why?”
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Be open and UNBIASED Hear literally Interpret accurately Act appropriately
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Listen- Let them finish their statement Empathize- See it from their point of view Ask- Clarify with questions Paraphrase- Tell them what you understand, repeat LEAP if necessary Summarize- Put all the info together in context
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Generate Voluntary Compliance when we have to… Generate Voluntary Cooperation on a good day… Generate Voluntary Collaboration on a great day
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Calm down! What’s your problem? You people… Come over here! I’m not going to tell you again! Because that is the rule!
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May I talk with you? What can I do to help you? May I ask you… Will you assist me? Will you work with me? Do you have a question?
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Anyone can talk someone into being ejected but it takes a professional to talk someone out of being ejected
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If we spend more time on non-escalation, we won’t need to de-escalate.
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Ask – Requesting tone of voice Set Context -- Tell them why, explain reason for contact Give Options – Positive first then negative Confirm – Is there anything that I can say… to get you to… I would like to think that… Act – Disengage and/or escalate
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You have to be nice … Until its time not to be nice … Then you have to be nice again
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Referee Safety Enhanced Professionalism Decreased Customer Complaints Decreased Vicarious Liability Court Power (no one wants to be seated at the table labeled defendant) Less Personal Stress Increased Morale
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Listen to what the person is saying, watch what they are doing, put everything in “context” of the current situation Otherwise, you may never see the argument or complaint coming
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Employ active listening skills to understand the situation from their point of view Attempt to learn what a person is thinking in order to generate voluntary: Compliance Cooperation Collaboration
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Ask Set Context Give Options Confirm Noncompliance Act – Disengage and/or Escalate
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Professional respect is given When you walk onto the field in uniform Personal respect is earned Through actions, communication, and professionalism Expect the first, strive for the second
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Let attitude drift … Focus on behavior We don’t need the last word, we have the last action It’s not enough to BE good, you have to LOOK good & SOUND good, or it’s NO good Never step on one’s personal face The goal is to attain personal respect, not just professional People are like steel - When they lose their temper they are useless!
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