1. Patricia A. Snell, MA and Amanda S. Wolfe, MPH Education Consultants Norfolk Advocates for Children Norfolk District Attorney’s Office NORFOLK ADVOCATES FOR CHILDREN

2. WWW.NORFOLKADVOCATESFORCHILDREN.COM REPEATED INCIDENTS BULLYING AND POWER MAKES SOMEONE SAD OR AFRAID

3. WWW.NORFOLKADVOCATESFORCHILDREN.COM RELATIONAL AGGRESSION RUMORS

4. WWW.NORFOLKADVOCATESFORCHILDREN.COM CYBER-BULLYING e-mail, blogs, Facebook

5. WWW.NORFOLKADVOCATESFORCHILDREN.COM EVERYTHING IS PUBLIC THE INTERNET CAN’T CONTROL WHO SAVES OR FORWARDS YOUR PHOTOS, VIDEO, TEXTS, EMAILS OR POSTS OR FORWARDS YOUR PHOTOS, VIDEO, TEXTS, EMAILS OR POSTS APPS. | EASY ACCESS

6. WWW.NORFOLKADVOCATESFORCHILDREN.COM PRIVACY SETTINGS THINK BEFORE YOU POST PHOTOS/VIDEOS/INFO.

7. WWW.NORFOLKADVOCATESFORCHILDREN.COM PHOTOS OR VIDEOS SEND OR FORWARDING INAPPROPRIATE

8. WWW.NORFOLKADVOCATESFORCHILDREN.COM YES! ARE STUDENTS GETTING INTO TROUBLE?

9. WWW.NORFOLKADVOCATESFORCHILDREN.COM BEING SAFE IN THE DIGITAL WORLD DON’T RESPOND REPORT ABUSE TALK TO SOMEONE

10. WWW.NORFOLKADVOCATESFORCHILDREN.COM REMEMBER… RESPECT YOURSELF AND OTHERS WILL RESPECT YOU!

11. WWW.NORFOLKADVOCATESFORCHILDREN.COM HEALTHY RELATIONSHIPS RESPECT AND A healthy relationship requires trust and honesty— asking someone to send a naked or inappropriate photo as a sign of “trust” is not healthy!

12. WWW.NORFOLKADVOCATESFORCHILDREN.COM AND DISRESPECT INAPPROPRIATE PHOTOS If a relationship ends, one person may spread the existing photos to other people to get back at the person who ended the relationship, or to blackmail the person who is trying to end the relationship. Someone may try to use cell phone contact to control the person they like and keep constant tabs on where they are, who they are with—this is not healthy or safe!

13. WWW.NORFOLKADVOCATESFORCHILDREN.COM TEXTS OR REQUESTS FOR PHOTOS RESPONDING TO INAPPROPRIATE

14. WWW.NORFOLKADVOCATESFORCHILDREN.COM TRY A SERIOUS RESPONSE Stress your discomfort: “I’m way too uncomfortable doing that.” Emphasize feelings: “If you really cared for me, you wouldn’t ask me to do that.” Change the subject: “Um let’s do something else, ok?” Call them out: “Nope, not gonna do anything illegal just to excite you.”

15. WWW.NORFOLKADVOCATESFORCHILDREN.COM TRY A FUNNY RESPONSE

16. WWW.NORFOLKADVOCATESFORCHILDREN.COM TRY A FUNNY RESPONSE

17. WWW.NORFOLKADVOCATESFORCHILDREN.COM PLACES TO GET HELP www.athinline.com www.thatsnotcool.com www.Loveisrespect.org www.marccenter.webs.com www.eyesonbullying.org www.commonsensemedia.org www.netsmartz/sexting DOVE, local domestic violence agency www.dovema.org www.dovema.org

18. Patricia A. Snell, MA and Amanda S. Wolfe, MPH Education Consultants Norfolk Advocates for Children Norfolk District Attorney’s Office NORFOLK ADVOCATES FOR CHILDREN QUESTIONS?