19 Be responsible for yourself. No one ‘should’ make you happy Be responsible for yourself. No one ‘should’ make you happy. Hence, don’t blame or depend on others for your happiness. You are in charge of your own well being.Be good to yourself. Never push yourself too hard and make yourself stress. Love yourself more and give yourself a break.Be true to yourself. Happiness is not suppressing your emotions and opinions just to please the others. Speak up for yourself!Be brave to say ‘no’. Let go and stay away from the negative people who is bringing you down or killing your confidence, even he/she is your friend.Be understanding. Accept that things can never be perfect. Learn to appreciate the beauty of the flaw.Be forgiving. We can’t change yesterday, but we must live forward. Sometimes the best way to redeem past mistakes or regrets is to move on and live better.Be grateful. Stop envying others or chasing things endlessly. You’ll be content and happy when you’re thankful with what you have.Be helpful. There are so many people in this world who are less fortunate than you. So help when you can to show you care.Be respectful. Love and respect are two side of the same coin. The way you sow will be the way you reap. Show your respect for life by respecting you.