1. Positive Attitude for Personal and Professional Excellence
Dr. Kedar Rayamajhi

2. Changing Behavior can be an extremely difficult and complex task.
Behaviour
Changing Behavior can be an extremely difficult and complex task.

3. Five Cancerous Behaviours
Criticising
Complaining
Comparing
Competing
Contending
Stephen Covey

4. Human mind is so powerful, it can invent, create, experience, and destroy things with thoughts alone.

5. Attitude is more important than what past, than education, than money, than circumstances, than what people do and say. It is more important than appearance, giftedness, or skill.
Charles Swindool

6. Pause and ponder
Invisible things are more important than the visible.
Concepts are invisible: love, sorrow but we do not see but can feel it.
Bring all the army of the world, attitude of a single man is more powerful than all the army of the world.

7. “Ninety percent of the input in your minds today is negative.”
Pause and Ponder
The positive thinker sees the invisible, feels the intangible, and achieves the impossible.
Unknown
“Ninety percent of the input in your minds today is negative.”
Zig Ziglar

8. Pause and Ponder We all have an inspiration or purpose in life.
Act responsibly.
If yes then only life would be meaningful.

9. When paradigms shift: … the rules change … we all go back to zero
Paradigm Shift
When paradigms shift:
… the rules change
… we all go back to zero
“Those who say it cannot be done, should get out of the way of those who are doing”.

10. Definition of Attitude
Attitude is multi-dimensional. So you need to apply the learned attitude in workplace and becomes million fold.
Attitude is nothing more than self programming.

11. CONTINUED…
Due to self programming we succeed in business, family, service, friendship or even war.
Research Focus Magzin asked the question: How our world will end?
Most of them said “ the most dangerous problem is the negative thinking or attitude”. The danger is “the people who psychologically justify his/her negative attitude is right.

12. So we need a break from your attitude.
So you don’t need to be Gandhi, Mandela, Lincoln or important person of the world but need positive thinking.
Your positive thinking will make you great and important.
So we need a break from your attitude.

13. Some examples…
Eric Van Henman, French Canadian was a blind who climbed Mt. Everest at the age of 35.
Lexan Ciara started his journey to US at the age of 13 and finally studied in US did his Ph. D from Cambridge and wrote a famous book named “Looming Shadow”.
Ben Carson, famous neuro-surgeon never went school.

14. If it is clear you can’t achieve goals, don't change your goals change your actions.

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16. Victor Frankla once wrote,
You could be faced
with a thousand problems,
many or most over which you have
absolutely no control.
HOWEVER,
there is always one thing you are in complete and absolute control of
and
that is your own attitude.
Victor Frankla once wrote,
"Everything can be taken from a person but one thing:
the last of human freedoms - to choose one's attitudes in any given set of circumstances,
to choose one's own way."
Franklas right... Attitude is a choice

17. Benefits of positive attitude
Helps achieving goals and attain success
Success achieve faster and more easily
More happiness
More energy
Greater inner peace and strength
Ability to face difficulties
Life smiles at you
People respect you

18. Positive Responses These are the enthusiastic people who say:
“Terrific.”
“Fantastic.”
“Great.”
“Excellent.”
“Super.”
“I’m on top of the world.”
“It doesn’t get any better.”

19. Negative Responses
The negative replies to How are you? include phrases such as:
“Lousy.”
“Terrible.”
“I’m tired.”
“Don’t ask, It's not my day.
“Thank God it’s Friday.”
“A day older and a dollar broker.”

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21. “Reference anxiety”:
For instance, widening gap in income distribution increases reference anxiety of lower income group.

22. Artists do not look at a landscape and ask what is wrong with the picture, their focus is to look for what is valuable.
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24. “Any fool can criticize, condemn and complain—
And most fools do.”
—DALE CARNEGIE
“The only disability in life is a bad attitude.”
—SCOTT HAMILTON

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26. नकारात्मक मनोवृत्तिका लक्षणहरु
आफ्नो संगठनको बारेमा सार्वजनिक स्थलमा आलोचना गर्नु
सदैब कमी कमजोरी खोज्नु
कामलाई गम्भिरतापूर्वक नलिनु
क्षमता लुकाउनु

27. • Ignorance • Fatalism. Not sensitive • Cynicism • Laziness
A negative attitude can lead to:
Carelessness
• Ignorance
• Fatalism.
Not sensitive
• Cynicism
• Laziness
• Recklessness

28. VALUES – STANDARDS – JUDGMENTS MOTIVES – ETHICS - BELIEFS
THE ICEBERG
BEHAVIOR
KNOWN
TO OTHERS
SEA LEVEL
UNKNOWN
TO OTHERS
IMPACT
VALUES – STANDARDS – JUDGMENTS
ATTITUDE
MOTIVES – ETHICS - BELIEFS

29. Factors Affecting the Quality of Service
Reliability
Confidence
Responsiveness
Efficiency
Consistency
Acceptance of and adherence to policies and procedures

30. Attitude Checklist What attitudes assist in providing good service?
Enjoy helping people
Handle people well (Active listening, E. Q.)
Care for your customers
Give fair and equal treatment to all
Be understanding of people with special needs

31. Have we ever thought?
Large proportion of potentials is unused at individual and organizations level.
What would happen if we can see and unleash some of these potentials?

32. A new way of thinking and doing is the most….
“No problem can be solved from the same level of thinking that created it. We must learn to see the world anew.”
-Albert Einstein

33. Learning is not an option it is the necessity.
Learning is the key…
Learning is not an option it is the necessity.

34. मानिसहरु किनसिक्न चाहदैनन?
म बुढो भए भन्ने सोच (विचार)
सिक्ने भन्ने त पाठशालामा मात्र हुन्छ भन्ने मानसिकता
मलाई कसैले सिकाउन सक्तैन भन्ने विचार
सिकेर के हुन्छ ? पद वा पैसा पाइन्न भन्ने विचार
सिक्न खोज्दा झण्झट र दुःख हुने भय (डर)
अरुले के भन्लान् भनेर (लाजमर्दो हुन्छ भनेर)
सिक्यो भने फाइदा हुन्छ भन्ने ज्ञान नभएर

35. Kind of “Glasses of listening and learning” that people generally carry

36. Is positive thinking ignoring reality?
Positive thinking is not ignoring reality.
Positive thinkers look for the best in a situation.
They do not ignore the negative event, just that they accept it and look for ways to make things more positive.

37. Putting on the Armor
Change
4 Things!
FEELING

38. Why we need change?
If you want to make a difference, you have to make a new beginning, new contribution to your family/ organization/ society/ and the nation. (Dasha vs Deesha)

39. Life is redesignable – rewrite the story
Results are not accidental. Transfer your learning into action.
Everyone has a will to win but very few have the will to prepare to win.
Leave the legacy.
Healthy Attitude.

40. All blame is a waste of time
All blame is a waste of time. No matter how much fault you find with another, and regardless of how much you blame him, it will not change you.
WAYNE DYER
Coauthor of How to Get What You Really, Really, Really, Really Want

41. Continued…
We have a choice every day regarding the attitude we will embrace for the day. Life is 10% what happens to us and 90% how we react to it. Our attitude is everything.
Charles Swindool

42. You are the designer of your destiny. You are the author
You are the designer of your destiny. You are the author. You write the story. The pen is in your hand and the outcome is in your hand.
Lisa Nichols

43. सकारात्मक सोच राख्ने उपायहरु
आफ्नो दृष्टिकोणको केन्द्रलाई परिवर्तन गर्नुहोस
कुनै पनि काम भोलि गर्छु भनी ढिलो नगर्नुहोस
सदैब खुशी हुने र धन्यवाद दिने गर्नुहोस ।
शिक्षा वा प्रशिक्षण लिन नछाड्नुहोस ।
आत्म विश्वासका साथ अगाडि बढ्नुहोस ।
नकारात्मक व्यवहार भएको संगत छाड्नुहोस ।
गर्नु पर्ने काम मन नपरे पनि गर्नुहोस् ।
आफ्ना हरेक विहानहरु सकारात्मक सोच र व्यवहार गरेर शुरु गर्नुहोस ।

44. Ratan Tata sayings
If you see the moon, you see the beauty of god, if you see the sun, you see the power of god and if you see the mirror, you are best creation of god. So believe in yourself.

45. Towards a successful life

46. The greatest discovery of my generation is that human beings can alter their lives by altering their attitude of mind. William James

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