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LIVE WORTHY: Practical Advice from a Man in Chains
Resolving Anger
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Introduction Renewed Thinking or Stinkin’ Thinkin’?
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Introduction Renewed Thinking or Stinkin’ Thinkin’?
Old Way – Stinkin’ Thinkin’
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Introduction Renewed Thinking or Stinkin’ Thinkin’?
Old Way – Stinkin’ Thinkin’ New Way – Renewed Thinking
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Sources of Anger
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Sources of Anger Emotional Response to Various Triggers
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Sources of Anger Primary Emotions of FEAR or HURT
Emotional Response to Various Triggers Primary Emotions of FEAR or HURT
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Sources of Anger Emotional Response to Various Triggers
Primary Emotions of FEAR or HURT Related Emotions – Humiliation, embarrassment, powerlessness, guilt, hurt, insecure, rejected, betrayed, used
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Sources of Anger Part of the Image of God?
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Sources of Anger Part of the Image of God? Anger at injustice
Anger at sin and its effects Anger at people who deliberately harm others Anger at pain & suffering, especially if human cause
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Sources of Anger Someone Trampling on MY “Rights”
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Sources of Anger Someone Trampling on MY “Rights” I have a right to…
Be understood Be treated with respect Be trusted and followed Not be questioned
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Dealing with Anger Identify the Source – SLOW Down (James 1:19-20)
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Dealing with Anger Identify Its NATURE – Definitive or Distorted?
Identify the Source – SLOW Down (James 1:19-20) Identify Its NATURE – Definitive or Distorted?
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Situation or Offense Causing Anger
DEFINITIVE Actual SIN against Me
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Situation or Offense Causing Anger
Definitive DISTORTED
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Situation or Offense Causing Anger
Definitive DISTORTED NOT a Sin, OVER-Reaction, MISUNDERSTANDING
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Dealing with Anger Resolve Anger Quickly
Identify the Source – SLOW Down (James 1:19-20) Identify Its NATURE – Definitive or Distorted? Resolve Anger Quickly
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Dealing with Anger Resolve Anger Quickly
REJECT EMOTIONAL RESPONSE AS UNFOUNDED
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Situation or Offense Causing Anger
Definitive DISTORTED Reject Emotions; Let It Go
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Dealing with Anger Resolve Anger Quickly
SURRENDER MY Rights – “Die to yourself.” (Galatians 2:20)
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Dealing with Anger Resolve Anger Quickly
SURRENDER MY Rights – “Die to yourself.” (Galatians 2:20) or
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Dealing with Anger Resolve Anger Quickly
REJECT EMOTIONAL RESPONSE AS UNFOUNDED SURRENDER MY Rights FORBEAR (See flow chart)
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Situation or Offense Causing Anger
Definitive
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Situation or Offense Causing Anger
Definitive FORBEAR
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Situation or Offense Causing Anger
Definitive FORBEAR Lovingly CONFRONT
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Situation or Offense Causing Anger
Definitive FORBEAR Lovingly CONFRONT Matthew 18:15-17
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Definitive Sin against Me
Lovingly CONFRONT PRIVATELY, no Gossip
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Definitive Sin against Me
Lovingly CONFRONT PRIVATELY Get a WITNESS
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Definitive Sin against Me
Lovingly CONFRONT PRIVATELY Get a WITNESS Get a REFEREE
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Definitive Sin against Me
Lovingly CONFRONT PRIVATELY Get a WITNESS Get a REFEREE Get an INTERVENTION
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Dealing with Anger Resolve Anger Quickly FORGIVE
REJECT EMOTIONAL RESPONSE AS UNFOUNDED SURRENDER MY Rights FORBEAR FORGIVE
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Conclusion Overlooking OFFENSES & INSULTS
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Conclusion Overlooking OFFENSES & INSULTS Next Week: Am I a Thief?
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