2. based on the work of Stephen Covey
Foundation The 7
Habits
based on the work of Stephen Covey

4. If you want to conquer the world, you have to conquer yourself first.

5. Character Ethic Personality Ethic 7 habits of highly effectuve people
Character Ethic in Personal change
It is principle centered, character based, inside-out approach to personal and interpersonal effectiveness.
Inside-out means to start first with self, even more 4fundamentally, to start with the most inside part of self- with your paradigms, your character, and your motive.The inside-out approach says that private victories precedespublic victories, that making and keeping promises toourselves precedes making and keeping promises to others. Itsays it is futile to put personality ahead of character, to try toimprove relationships with others before improving ourselves.

6. Character Ethic Personality Ethic Quick fix Influence techniques
Communication skills
positive attitude
Personality Ethic
Integrity, courage, justice, and patience.
Character Ethic
Process
This approach represent a paradigm shift way from personal ethic and toward a character ethic
Personality ethics: may play game to help one succeed in some specific circumstances
Character ethics: integrity, humility, fidelity, temperance, courage, justice, patience, simplicity through which the people can only experience true & enduring success.

7. Collection of our Habits
Knowledge
Skill
Desire
Character
Collection of our Habits
Our Character is a collection of our habits, and habits have a power role in our lives. Habits consists of konowldge,skill, and desire.knowlde allows us to know what to do, skill gives us the ability to do it, and the desire is the motivation to do it.

8. SECRET LIFE
Four unique human endowments
PRIVATE LIFE
PUBLIC LIFE

9. Habits for private victory
Habit 1 :be proactive
Habit 2
Begin with the end in mind
Habits for private victory
Habit 3:
Put first thing first
Principles of personal vision
Principles of personal management
Principles of personal leadership
Self-masetry
To make the choice to became interdependent, one first must be independent, since dependent people have not yet developed the character of interdependence. Therefore, the first three habits focus on self-masetery. This is achieving the private victory to move from dependence to independence.
Changes starts from whiin, and highly effectuve people make the decision to improve their lives through the things tthat they can influence rather than by simply reacting to external forces
Develop a principle-centred personal statement . Extend the mission to leng-term goal based on personal principles
Spend time on what fit your personal statemnt . Identify the key role that you take on in life, and make time fro each of them.

10. Habit #1 Be Proactive Habits based on the work of Stephen Covey

11. Life is a book and you are the author
Life is a book and you are the author. You determine its plot and pace and you—only you—turn its pages.” --Beth Mende Conny

12. What happens to a bottle of soda when you shake it up?
It is more than taking initiative. This is the ability to control ones environment, rather than have it control you, as is so often the case. Self determination, choice, and the power to decide response to stimulus, conditions and circumstances
It Explodes

13. Discussion : Is it hard to stay calm even when things don’t go your way? Why or why not? What steps could you take to be more PROACTIVE and calm when things aren’t going well?

14. Where do you fall? Very Very Reactive Proactive
How could you be more proactive?

15. How do you feel on days like this?
Circle of influence & Circle of concern:-Excellent way to become more self aware regarding our own degree of pro-activity is to look at where we focus our time &energy. Circle of Concern: Identify those concern on which you don’t have any influence & minimise this circle of concern Circle of Influence :Increase this circle of influence to increase your pro activity. Highly Proactive people focus their efforts on circle of influence.

16. If you could “carry the weather with you”….
you could have a good day no matter what comes your way.

17. Discussion:
Do you think it is possible to carry your weather with you? What do you think this means? How would your life be different if you could carry happiness or peace with you no matter what things happen?

18. Circle of Influence Circle of Concern
Things you did in the past
How other people think about you
Your mood
How to treat people
Can you think of other examples from your life?

19. Habit #2 Begin with end in mind based on the work of Stephen Covey

21. Journal Entry or Discussion Starter:
What is “the end” for you? What do you hope to be doing ten years from now? Twenty? Make a list of things you want to do in your life.

22. Before you figure out the “end”, you have to take a look at who YOU are! Draw a picture of something that represents you. It could be an animal, plant, machine, a food, etc. Explain why you chose what you did.

23. In ten years a newspaper decides to do a story about YOU
In ten years a newspaper decides to do a story about YOU! They interview four people about you. These could be friends or family. What would you want them to say about you?

24. Habit #3 Put First Things First Based on the work of Stephen Covey

25. “Planning is bringing the future into the present so that you can do something about it now.” ~Alan Lakein

26. Sometimes not being brave gets in the way of doing things that are important to you. Putting first things first might means putting aside your fears to reach your goal. Has fear ever kept you from doing something great or important? Explain.

27. Time Wasters:
Brainstorm some things that you do that wastes a lot of your time. Sometimes these things are fun and relaxing. If you do them too much though, they may get in the way of the important things.

28. Break from traditional wisdom
Toward 7 habits principles
Habit #1
We are a product of our environment and upbringing
We are a product of our choices to our environment and upbringings
Habit #2
Society is the source of our values
Values are self-chosen and provide foundation for decision making. Values flow out of principles.
Habit #3
Reactive is the tyranny of the urgent
Actions flow from what which is important

30. Teach to Learn

31. Inter-independence Independence Dependence
The 7 habits moves us through the following stages
Dependence: paradigm under which we are born reply upon others to take care of us
Independence: the paradigm under which we can make our own decisions and take care of ourselfs
Interdependance:paradigm under which we coorporate to achieve something that can’t be achieve independantly.

32. Habits for public victory
Habit 4: Win-Win
Habit 5: seek to understand & then to be understood
Habits for public victory
Habit 6:
Synergize
Principles of interpersonal leadership
Principles of Creative corporation
Principles of empathetic communication
Seek agrrement an relationship that are mutually benifical. In case were a win-win deal can not be acheives accept that agreeing to make no deal may be the best alternative. To develop organization culture be sure to reward win-win behavior among employees