1. Based on the work of Stephen Covey
Habit #1 Be Proactive
Based on the work of Stephen Covey

2. What happens to a bottle of soda when you shake it up?
It EXPLODES!

3. When you are PROACTIVE, you make a choice about how you react to the things that happen in your life. You act like a water bottle. You might get shaken up or mad, but you stay calm and don’t explode!

4. Proactive vs. Reactive
When you are PROACTIVE, you make good choices about how you respond to something happening. You are always ready with a calm attitude. You do things to make sure that the right things will happen. You are prepared for anything that might happen. When things don’t go your way, you aren’t happy, BUT you stay calm.
When you are REACTIVE, you could explode at any minute. Things happen and they “catch you off guard”. You aren’t ready for things that might happen. You deal with things when they happen instead of being prepared.

5. How could you be more proactive?
Where do you fall?
Very
Reactive
Very
Proactive
How could you be more proactive?

6. Circle of Influence Focus on things you can change or influence
concern
Things you can’t control
Things you can control or change
Focus on things you can change or influence

7. Be Proactive
Change how you handle things. Make a choice to be positive and focus on those things that YOU can change.
Make a positive difference in your family, your class, your school and the world!

8. Habit #2 Begin with the End in Mind
Based on the work Stephen Covey

9. I plan ahead and set goals
I plan ahead and set goals. I do things that have meaning and make a difference. I am an important part of my classroom. I look for ways to be a good citizen.

10. How good are you at beginning with the end in mind?
I always keep the end in mind.
I only think about today.
Why did you rate yourself this way?

11. Finish these sentences:
~If I my future had no limits, I would choose to be….. ~I want to be a person who…

12. Habit #3 Put First Things First
Based on the work of Stephen Covey

13. I spend my time on things that are most important
I spend my time on things that are most important. This means I say no to things I should not do. I set priorities, make a schedule, and follow my plan. I am organized.

14. Big Things and Little Things:
Putting first things first means planning your time around the most important, BIG things in your life. Then, you can get to the little things that take your time.
Big, Important Things That Take Your Time
Small Things, Less Important Things That Take Your Time

15. Time Wasters:
Some things you do that wastes a lot of your time. Sometimes these things are fun and relaxing. If you do them too much though, they may get in the way of the important things.

16. How could you be better at putting first things first?
Where do you fall?
I always put first things first!
I never to set goals or put first things first.
How could you be better at putting first things first?

17. Based on the work of Stephen Covey
Habit #4 Think Win-Win
Based on the work of Stephen Covey

18. I want everyone to be a success
I want everyone to be a success. I don’t have to put others down to get what I want. It makes me happy to see other people happy. I like to do nice things for others. When a conflict arrives, I help brainstorm a solution. We all can win!

19. Think Win-Win Road Blocks
I’ll step on you to get ahead.
I am a loser. I can’t do anything.
At least I am better than her/him.
I’ll let someone else win again.

20. Human Doormat:
Do you always let other people win? Do you not raise your hand to answer a question because you know somebody will answer? Do you let people jump in front of you? Do you let people treat you poorly? (If so, you are not practicing Think Win-Win.)

21. How could you be better at Think Win-Win?
Where do you fall?
Very Good! I want everyone to do well.
Very Bad! I don’t like to see other people win.
How could you be better at Think Win-Win?

22. Habit #5 Seek First to Understand, Then to Be Understood
Based on the work Stephen Covey.

23. Listening Road Blocks Spacing Out: Pretend Listening:
Your mind wanders when others talk.
Pretend Listening:
You don’t really pay attention to the other person, but you pretend to. You say “yeah,”, “uh-huh,” and “cool.”
Selective Listening:
You listen only to the parts that interest you.
Selfish Listening:
You always bring the conversation back to you and your life. You say things like “I had that happen too” and “I know how you feel.”

24. Listen With Your Eyes: Sometimes you have to listen with your eyes as much as you listen with your ears. People say a lot with their body language and facial expressions.

25. Mirror, Mirror
To be a good listener, mirror back what someone says. Repeat back in your own words what the person is saying. Use statements like “You seem to be feeling…” and “So what you are saying is…”

26. How could you be a better listener?
Are you a good listener?
Very
Good Listener
Not Such a Great Listener
How could you be a better listener?

27. Habit #6 Synergize
Based on the work of Stephen Covey.

28. I value other people’s strengths and learn from them
I value other people’s strengths and learn from them. I get along well with others, even people who are different from me. I work well in groups. I seek out other people’s ideas to solve problems. I know that “two heads are better than one”. I am a better person when I let other people into my life and work.

29. Journal Entry or Discussion Starter:
They say that, “Two heads are better than one.” Do you agree or disagree? Why?

30. Synergy Action Plan Define the Problem Their Way My Way Brainstorm
Make sure you understand the problem or task.
Their Way
Try to understand everyone’s ideas. Listen carefully.
My Way
Seek to be understood. Share your ideas.
Brainstorm
Be creative. Everyone create new ideas.
High Way
Find best solution.

31. How could you be better at working with others?
Where do you fall?
I work well with others.
I’d rather work by myself.
How could you be better at working with others?

32. Based on the work of Stephen Covey
Habit #7 Sharpen the Saw
Based on the work of Stephen Covey

33. I take care of my body by eating right, exercising, and getting sleep
I take care of my body by eating right, exercising, and getting sleep. I spend time with family and friends. I learn in lots of ways and lots of places.

34. Body: Exercise, Be Healthy, Sleep, Relax Brain: Learn, Read, Write
Soul:
Journal, Think, Pray
Heart:
Serve, Laugh, Be a Friend

35. Your Saw is Your Life What makes your saw sharp?
What makes your saw dull?

36. How good are you at sharpening the saw?
My saw is very sharp!
My saw is very dull!
What steps could you take to sharpen your saw?

37. Credits: This slide show was created by Rebecca Radicchi using the following resources.
The Seven Habits for Highly Effective People by Stephen Covey
The Seven Habits for Highly Effective Kids by Sean Covey
The Seven Habits for Highly Effective Teens by Sean Covey