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THE REAPER HAS LOTS OF FRIENDS: THE MANY FACES OF LOSS Christian J. Billington, MA, LMFTC, NCC Colorado Employee Assistance Program Presentation 8 th May, 2015
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OBJECTIVES Discuss grief & loss Understand historical loss and contemporary loss models Generate ideas on how to be/work with loss Guidelines for supporting client’s who have experienced a loss Discuss complicated grief & loss
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PERSONAL LOSS Loss line Who am i? Personal experiences of loss
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OLD LOSS MODELS Freud (1917) Stage Kubler-Ross (1969) Stage Bowlby & Parkes (1970) Stage Worden (1982/2002) Task Marone (1999) Phase
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CONTEMPORARY LOSS MODELS Rando’s Six ‘R’ Model (1993) Strobe & Schuts Dual Process Model (1999) Le Poidevin’s Multidimensional Model Walsh & McGoldrick (2004) Task
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TYPES OF LOSS Primary & secondary Multiple losses Ambiguous loss Obscured loss Stigmatized loss Sudden, unexpected, or gradual loss Cultural loss
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Normal Complicated Anticipatory Chronic Delayed Traumatic Abbreviated Frozen TYPES OF GRIEF Distorted Cumulative Prolonged Exaggerated Masked Disenfranchised Collective Inhibited Absent (Whatsyourgrief.com)
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DISENFRANCHISED GRIEF (DOKA, 1989) Loss is not socially recognized Loss is not socially recognized as legitimate Griever is not socially recognized as capable of grief
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GUIDELINES FOR MANAGING GRIEF &LOSS Grief is unique to the individual Multiple fluid contexts Nonlinear grief models over universal stage/phase models Promote “Continuing bonds.” Recognize grieving as a normative process Grieving clients are active agents of process of loss adaptation
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GUIDELINES CONT. Meaning reconstruction as a critical aspect of loss adaptation Recognize grief does not end, but it does change Tailor treatment to uniqueness of the grieving clients (Humphrey, 1999)
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CONSIDERATIONS Strategies; affective, cognitive, behavioral & spiritual Attachments Disrupted meaning structures Personal history of loss & separation Developmental considerations Social supports Sociocultural influences(Humphrey, 1999)
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THE SHORTEST WAY TO THE ‘OTHER SIDE’ OF GRIEF ‘IS THROUGH.’ - UNKNOWN
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TOOLS Witness client’s experience & story – Be with them ‘Normalize’ & Validate experience Psychoeducation Rituals Journaling Support groups Retelling/sharing loss Spiritual/faith examination Re-connect with friends and families More ideas…
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SIGNS OF CHANGE AFTER LOSS Meaning reconstruction Sharing loss More manageable/predictable emotions Softening and noticing that grief is changing Reintegration/rebalancing of life post loss Re-establish routines Post loss growth
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COMPLICATIONS DSM IVTR DSM V Impaired functioning in life Destructive behaviors Poor coping Safety concerns Differentiation from depression Isolation
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PHYSICAL REACTIONS Continued sleep disturbances from frequent nightmares and intrusive memories Physical symptoms or psychosomatics related to the loss Significant weight loss or gain
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EMOTIONAL REACTIONS Inhibited or absent grief Prolonged hostility and aggression Panic attacks, phobias, or irrational fears Constant yearning for what was lost
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BEHAVIORAL Progressive isolation and withdrawal from social contact Self-destructive behavior Prolonged avoidance of tasks reminiscent of what was lost Continued loss of interest in activities (Sharecare.com 7/2009)
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QUESTIONS? Take Aways…
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