#10 – Blended Families - Part I In Love for Life Building or Rebuilding a Great Marriage Mike Mazzalongo.

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#10 – Blended Families - Part I In Love for Life Building or Rebuilding a Great Marriage Mike Mazzalongo

Blended Family - Statistics 48% of all first marriages end in divorce. 79% women & 89% men remarry 68% of remarriages have children from previous marriages “thebondedfamily.com”

Blended Family - Statistics 21 New blended families formed every day in U.S. Less than 12% divorced or single parents go too church because they, “…don’t feel the church cares about their broken lives.” “thebondedfamily.com”

Blended Family – Biblical Examples Jacob and two wives

Blended Family – Today’s Examples Subsequent marriages

Blended Family – Today’s Examples Subsequent marriages Single parents with multi-partner children

Blended Family – Today’s Examples Subsequent marriages Single parents with multi-partner children Grandparents raising grandchildren

Blended Family – Today’s Examples Subsequent marriages Single parents with multi-partner children Grandparents raising grandchildren Multigenerational –Adoptive situations –Group homes

REASONS FOR DIVORCE IN 1 ST MARRIAGES

Reasons for Divorce in 1 st Marriages 1.Immaturity

Reasons for Divorce in 1 st Marriages 1.Immaturity 2.Sex

Reasons for Divorce in 1 st Marriages 1.Immaturity 2.Sex 3.Marriage Preparation

Reasons for Divorce in 1 st Marriages 1.Immaturity 2.Sex 3.Marriage Preparation 4.In-Laws

Reasons for Divorce in 1 st Marriages 1.Immaturity 2.Sex 3.Marriage Preparation 4.In-Laws 5.Values Conflict

Reasons for Divorce in 1 st Marriages 1.Immaturity 2.Sex 3.Marriage Preparation 4.In-Laws 5.Values Conflict 6.Adjustment Problems

Reasons for Divorce in 1 st Marriages 1.Immaturity 2.Sex 3.Marriage Preparation 4.In-Laws 5.Values Conflict 6.Adjustment Problems 7.Child Rearing

Reasons for Divorce in 1 st Marriages 1.Immaturity 2.Sex 3.Marriage Preparation 4.In-Laws 5.Values Conflict 6.Adjustment Problems 7.Child Rearing 8.Finances

REASONS FOR DIVORCE IN 2 nd MARRIAGES

Reasons for Divorce in 2 nd Marriages 1.Child Rearing

Reasons for Divorce in 2 nd Marriages 1.Child Rearing 2.Finances

Reasons for Divorce in 2 nd Marriages 1.Child Rearing 2.Finances 3.Relatives

Reasons for Divorce in 2 nd Marriages 1.Child Rearing 2.Finances 3.Relatives 4.Values

Reasons for Divorce in 2 nd Marriages 1.Child Rearing 2.Finances 3.Relatives 4.Values 5.Sharing of Tasks

Phil. 3: Brothers and sisters, I do not consider myself yet to have taken hold of it. But one thing I do: Forgetting what is behind and straining toward what is ahead, 14 I press on toward the goal to win the prize for which God has called me heavenward in Christ Jesus.

How To Prepare - Phil. 3: Know Your Mate and Children

How To Prepare - Phil. 3: Know Your Mate and Children 2. Understand Children’s Needs

How To Prepare - Phil. 3: Know Your Mate and Children 2. Understand Children’s Needs 3. Build a New Relationship

How To Prepare - Phil. 3: Know Your Mate and Children 2. Understand Children’s Needs 3. Build a New Relationship 4. Include Everyone

Arriving at Unity

1. Avoid Co-Conductor System

Arriving at Unity 1. Avoid Co-Conductor System 2. Give Up Previous Role

Arriving at Unity 1. Avoid Co-Conductor System 2. Give Up Previous Role 3. Establish Ground Rules

Ground Rules Courtesy

Ground Rules Courtesy Family Rules

Ground Rules Courtesy Family Rules Fairness

Ground Rules Courtesy Family Rules Fairness Division of Labor

Ground Rules Courtesy Family Rules Fairness Division of Labor Spiritual Goals

ONLY JESUS CAN MAKE TWO INTO ONE