Teens and Siblings.

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Teens and Siblings

Siblings Brother and sisters in a family. Can be the best of friends or the worst of enemies. Why would this be true? Give some examples.

Sibling Rivalry Competition between brothers and sisters. Usually created by jealous feelings as they compete for their parents’ love and attention, or other things.

Supportive Sibling Behavior Any action that helps or encourages a sibling. Can take place in the home or outside the home. Give some examples.

Birth Order The role a child plays in the home is greatly influenced by his/her birth order. This role can also be transferred to school and peer groups. What birth order are you? See which category best fits you.

Birth Order Quiz Category A Manipulative Charming Usually gets his/her way Blames others for things that happen witty A show-off Loves people Good salesperson Draws favorable attention

Birth Order Quiz Category B Perfectionist Reliable Makes lists Conscientious Well-organized Serious Critical Does well in school Usually neat and tidy

Birth Order Quiz Category C Acts as a go-between in family conflicts Has the fewest pictures in the family photo album Avoids conflict Has many friends Extremely loyal to peer group (gets mad if parents criticize friends) Seems to do things differently than the rest of the family Independent

Birth Order Quiz Results Every word in these descriptions may not be exactly as you are, but you are to choose the one that fits the best. Category A: Youngest Category B: Oldest Category C: Middle

Birth Order Characteristics First Born or Only Child Guinea pigs Perfectionists Reliable Conscientious List makers Well-organized Critical Scholarly Loyal Serious Goal-oriented People pleasers Conservative Supporters of law and order Believers in authority and ritual Legalistic Self-reliant

Birth Order Characteristics Middle Born Independent Loyal to peer group Many friends Usually leave home first Find companionship outside the home Feels left out of their own family Run with the pack Avoid conflict Least number of pictures in family albums Prone to embarrassment, but won’t admit it Secretive Last to see professional help

Birth Order Characteristics Last Born Manipulative Charming Blame others Shows off People persons Good salespersons Precocious Engaging Messy class clowns Love limelight Personable manipulators Affectionate Absentminded Carefree Not taken seriously

Your Teacher’s Birth Order Now that you have a little background on birth order characteristics, what birth order do you think your teacher is? How about these teachers? Mrs. Smith Mr. Blackham Mr. Zobell Ms. Mitchell

Making Your Birth Order Work for You The following slides have some suggestions for making your birth order work in your best interest. People who are wise learn to make their birth order work for them and to their advantage.

Tips for the Oldest Child Don’t overextend yourself Learn to say no—you can’t do everything Don’t expect so much from yourself. You don’t have to be perfect. Don’t be afraid of being a detail person. Take problem solving step-by-step

Tips for the Oldest Child Don’t let others pressure you into making decisions. Take your time. Try to develop a sense of humor and laugh at your mistakes. Never apologize for being conscientious or over organized.

Tips for the Middle Child Use your people skills to see both sides of issues and deal with life as it really is. If you are a free spirit, fight to keep your unique qualities. Middle children grow up thinking that no one ever listened to them and they never had a chance to express their ideas. Share your ideas!

Tips for the Middle Child Enjoy your many friends, but don’t spread yourself too thin. Don’t compare yourself to others—just be you! Don’t think only firstborns are leaders; you understand, negotiate, and compromise. Try being a leader!

Tips for the Youngest Child Accept responsibility for yourself! Many lastborns are messy; learn to pick up after yourself. Choose jobs where you interact with people because you will do well! Be less self-centered and offer to help others.

Tips for the Youngest Child Don’t blame others if you’re the one who really caused the situation. Your gift of humor will be an asset; use it correctly. Don’t be a carrot seeker. Give others a chance to share the limelight. Concentrate on asking others about them! Lastborns tend to be the most compatible.

Sibling Research Project We are going to conduct a sibling research project on our class. Fill out the sibling rivalry research questionnaire. Now we are going to tally the results.

Tally our Results Split into 4 groups Group one: Group two: Examine results from questions 1-5 Group two: Examine results from questions 6-10 Group three: Examine results from questions 11-15 Group four: Examine results from questions 16-19

Analyze our Results Have each group report their findings to the teacher. The teacher will then tally all of the information onto one sheet of paper. Homework Assignment: Take home a copy of the sibling rivalry student survey results sheet and answer the questions on the sibling rivalry student reaction form. This will be due next class period.

Summary Living with siblings is not always easy, but your siblings will always be part of your life and they can be good friends. It is in the best interest of the family to understand sibling interaction and sibling dynamics in order to contribute to good relationships.