Small Group Leader Training South Park Church Brad Olson, Psy.D.,M.Div.

What is the purpose of (your) small group? Bible study? Prayer? Community/Social? Support? Task Driven? Relationship Driven? Spiritual Growth?

Purpose of Small Groups: Ideally a (spiritual) growth group- meant to transform lives- total overhaul (discipleship)… is that how we think about small groups? How do we transform lives?

What is the Role of the Small group leader? What Does He/She Need to Tend To?

The Juggling Act of the Small Group Leader Tasks Relationships Environment Spiritual Life Cultivating spiritual health- discipleship Creating a comfortable environment Connecting in authentic community Setting rules, assigning roles, getting material

What parts come easy for you? What parts do you find yourself leaning on more often? How can you do others parts better? Your purpose of the group will determine your efforts in each area

The Juggling Act of the Small Group Leader Relationships: developing authentic community (The key difference between Bible Study And Small group) Creating safety is a key to developing authentic community. Pay attention to: Being genuine, warm, empathic Take time-be available Have good boundaries Be loving Seek to understand-ask Be fully present Tell the truth Resolve conflicts Keep confidences Listen- beyond words

Key Ingredients for a Healthy Group The commitment of affirmation The commitment of availability The commitment of prayer The commitment of openness The commitment of honesty The commitment of sensitivity The commitment of confidentiality The commitment of accountability The commitment of participation