Welcome to Leadership and Self-Deception: The Hidden Key to Improving Results Session Two
Not seeing that I play a role in the problem. Self-Deception Not seeing that I play a role in the problem.
Not acting on what I feel I should do for another. Self-Betrayal Not acting on what I feel I should do for another.
In the Box Self-deception.
each other with the justification for Collusion When two or more people are in the box, blame each other, and thereby provide each other with the justification for their behaviors.
1. Self-deception is caused by a single _______ called self-betrayal. Course Review 1. Self-deception is caused by a single _______ called self-betrayal. GERM
Course Review 2. Self-betrayal is an action contrary to what I feel I should do for _________. OTHERS
Course Review 3. When I betray myself, I begin to see the world in a way that _________ my self-betrayal. JUSTIFIES
4. This self-justifying view of the world is ____________. Course Review 4. This self-justifying view of the world is ____________. SELF-DECEPTION
5. To be in self-deception is to be _______________. Course Review 5. To be in self-deception is to be _______________. IN THE BOX
6. To be in the box is to see others as _________. Course Review 6. To be in the box is to see others as _________. OBJECTS
7. One characteristic of being in the box is an attitude of _____. Course Review 7. One characteristic of being in the box is an attitude of _____. BLAME
8. Being in the box, we _______ others to be Course Review 8. Being in the box, we _______ others to be in the box. PROVOKE
Course Review 9. When two or more people are in the box together they _______ in giving each other justification. COLLUDE
10. We leave the box when we cease ____________. Course Review 10. We leave the box when we cease ____________. SELF-BETRAYAL
Course Review 11. Relationships where we are already out of the box gives us ________ to get out of the box in other relationships. LEVERAGE
Course Review 12. To be out of the box is to see others as ______. We are not justifying ourselves by _______ them. PEOPLE BLAMING