Riyaad-us-Saliheen Benevolent Treatment towards Orphans, Girls, the Weak, the Poor and the Humble Persons Taught by Br Wajdi Akkari Commentary of Shaikh Ibn Uthaymeen Lesson 67

Abu Shuraih Khuwailid bin `Amr Al-Khuza`i (May Allah be pleased with him) reported: The Prophet ( ﷺ ) said, "O Allah, I declare inviolable the rights of two weak ones: the orphans and women." [An-Nasa'i] This indicates that it is Haram for us to deny them their rights Hadith

Mus`ab bin Sa`d bin Abi Waqqas (May Allah be pleased with them) reported: Sa`d considered himself better than his inferiors, so the Prophet ( ﷺ ) said to him, "You are given help and provision because of your weak ones." [Al-Bukhari] Hadith

Abud-Darda (May Allah be pleased with him) reported: Messenger of Allah ( ﷺ ) said, "Seek among your weak ones, for you are given provision and help only because of the weak amongst you.'' [Abu Dawud] Hadith

Riyaad-us-Saliheen Recommendations with regards to women Taught by Br Wajdi Akkari Commentary of Shaikh Ibn Uthaymeen Lesson 67

"... and live with them honourably". (4:19) "You will never be able to do perfect justice between wives even if it is your ardent desire, so do not incline too much to one of them (by giving her more of your time and provision) so as to leave the other hanging (i.e. neither divorced nor married). And if you do justice, and do all that is right, and fear Allah by keeping away from all that is wrong, then Allah is Ever Oft-Forgiving, Most Merciful.'' (4:129) This is for one who has more than one wife, he is not accountable for his feelings but will be accountable for treating them unjustly Verses

Abu Hurairah (May Allah be pleased with him) reported: The Messenger of Allah ( ﷺ ) said: "Take my advice with regard to women: Act kindly towards women, for they were created from a rib, and the most crooked part of a rib is its uppermost. If you attempt to straighten it; you will break it, and if you leave it alone it will remain crooked; so act kindly toward women." [Al-Bukhari and Muslim] In another narration of Al-Bukhari and Muslim, the Messenger of Allah ( ﷺ ) said: "A woman is like a rib, if you attempt to straighten it, you will break it; and if you benefit from her, you will do so while crookedness remains in her." In another narration of Muslim, Messenger of Allah ( ﷺ ) said: 'Woman has been created from a rib and will in no way be straightened for you; so if you want to benefit from her, you will benefit from her while crookedness remains in her. If you attempt to straighten her, you will break her, and breaking her is divorcing her." Hadith

Abdullah bin Zam`ah (May Allah be pleased with him) reported that he heard the Prophet ( ﷺ ) giving a speech when he mentioned the she-camel (of Prophet Salih) and the man who had killed her. Messenger of Allah ( ﷺ ) said: "When the most wicked man among them went forth (to kill the she- camel).' (91:12) signifies that a distinguished, wicked and most powerful chief of the people jumped up to kill the she-camel.'' Then he ( ﷺ ) made mention of women and said, "Some of you beat your wives as if they were slaves, and then lie with them at the end of the day". Then he ( ﷺ ) admonished them against laughing at another's passing of wind, saying, "Why does any of you laugh at another doing what he does himself." [Al-Bukhari and Muslim] Hadith

Abu Hurairah (May Allah be pleased with him) reported: The Messenger of Allah ( ﷺ ) said, "A believer must not hate (his wife) believing woman; if he dislikes one of her characteristics he will be pleased with another". [Muslim] Hadith