BY ASADANG VANADIT P6 RELATIONSHIP PROBLEM (SAYING NO TO YOUR FRIEND)

LONG STORY SHORT We were best friends since grade seven. But when we started to grow up we started to share difference interest we were good friends but not close friends He had a lot of problem with his temper which made me want to stay away from him A lot of my friend started have some minor problem with him ( but we never really tell him)

THEN Then he decided to apply to the same university with me which was never his goal studying in business. I was really pissed off knowing that having him as my roommate for three years would be nightmare I did not really know what to do.

WHAT HAPPENED AFTER THAT Some of my friends including me started to ignore him. (a little bit) We could not deal with having him as our roommate. He started to stay alone more.

HOW THINGS ENDED After about two weeks he realized that we did not want this to happen by our action. He told everyone he was going to somewhere else ( which was his passion since he was a kid) We did maintain a good relationship after that. ( except one of my friend and him)

WHAT WE SHOULD HAVE DONE We should have tell him straightforwardly that we did not want him to be our roommate for the 3-4 years. ( but we were afraid that if we did tell him straightforwardly we will not be able to maintain our relationship) We should have at least give him some clues…

LESSON LEARNED After this problem I had with my friend I decided to be more straightforward with my friend. I think people should be more straight forward because if we are not straightforward with our friend the problem might last really long and that is really annoying.