Issachar Coaching Cluster Maintaining Healthy Relationships Year 3 Session 3

How has God been blessing you since we last met? What new things has the Holy Spirit been leading you to do in relation to your Evangelism Prayer List? Prayer

A primary objective of the District is to produce Growing Spirit-filled Christ-like Servant Leaders at every level in the Bride of Christ. Who are you intentionally reproducing yourself in at this time?

Growing Spirit-filled Christ-like Servant Leader(ship) Core Competencies Model

Abiding In Jesus Christ Competencies: 1-Growing in Intimacy with Christ 2-Crucifying Self 3-Claiming God’s Armor 4-Exercising Spiritual Disciplines 5-Practicing Sacred Pathways

Growing Spirit-filled Christ- like Servant Leader(ship) Core Competencies Model Empowering by Holy Spirit Competencies: 1-Claiming the Promise, Presence & Power of the Holy Spirit 2-Obeying the Holy Spirit -Quench Not -Grieve Not -Resist Not

Growing Spirit-filled Christ-like Servant Leader(ship) Core Competencies Model Empowering by Holy Spirit Competencies: 3-Being filled with the Holy Spirit 4-Manifesting the Fruit of the Holy Spirit 5-Exercising the Spiritual Gifts of the Holy Spirit

Growing Spirit-filled Christ-like Servant Leader(ship) Core Competencies Model Thinking Strategically Competencies: 1-Defining Realities 2-Providing Direction 3-Facilitating Action 4-Thinking Divergently 5-Thinking Convergently

Growing Spirit-filled Christ-like Servant Leader(ship) Core Competencies Model Leading Self Competencies: 1-Developing Christ- like Character 2-Establishing Christ-like Priorities 3-Maximizing God- given Abilities 4-Establishing Healthy Relationships 5-Sharpening the Saw/Learning for Life

Growing Spirit-filled Christ-like Servant Leader(ship) Core Competencies Model Leading a Team Competencies: 1-Building Trust- filled Relationships 2-Communicating Effectively 3-Unleashing People to Act 4-Cultivating Effective Teams 5-Developing Leaders

Growing Spirit-filled Christ-like Servant Leader(ship) Core Competencies Model Leading the Ministry Competencies: 1-Cultivating God’s Preferred Future 2-Managing Change 3-Executing Strategy 4-Adapting Organizational Structures 5-Administrating the Ministry

Establishing Healthy Relationships Eccl 4:9-12 two are better than one, because they have a good return for their work: If one falls down, his friend can help him up. But pity the man who falls and has no one to help him up!

Establishing Healthy Relationships Also, if two lie down together, they will keep warm. But how can one keep warm alone? Though one may be overpowered, two can defend themselves. A cord of three strands is not quickly broken.

Establishing Healthy Relationships Prov 27:17 As iron sharpens iron, so one man sharpens another.

Establishing Healthy Relationships Prov 11:14 For lack of guidance a nation falls, but many advisers make victory sure.

Establishing Healthy Relationships Prov 15:22 Plans fail for lack of counsel, but with many advisers they succeed.

Establishing Healthy Relationships Prov 27:6 Wounds from a friend can be trusted, but an enemy multiplies kisses.

Establishing Healthy Relationships I Corinthians 6:18-20 – “Flee from sexual immorality. All other sins a man commits are outside his body, but he who sins sexually sins against his own body. Do you not know that your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit, who is in you, whom you have received from God?

Establishing Healthy Relationships You are not your own; you were bought at a price. Therefore honor God with your body.”

Establishing Healthy Relationships Job 31:1 - "I made a covenant with my eyes not to look lustfully at a girl.”

Establishing Healthy Relationships Matthew 5: "You have heard that it was said, 'Do not commit adultery’. But I tell you that anyone who looks at a woman lustfully has already committed adultery with her in his heart.”

Establishing Healthy Relationships I Timothy 5:1-2 – “Do not rebuke an older man harshly, but exhort him as if he were your father. Treat younger men as brothers, older women as mothers, and younger women as sisters, with absolute purity.”

Establishing Healthy Relationships Apostle Paul’s Relationship Model Older individuals-treat as a father or mother Same age-treat as brother or sister Younger age-treat as little brother or sister

Establishing Healthy Relationships 2 Tim 2:2 And the things you have heard me say in the presence of many witnesses entrust to reliable men who will also be qualified to teach others.

As we move through the different phases of life, we face different challenges, ask different questions and need different types of relationships. Robert Clinton Jeff Norris