1. BULLYING: BACKGROUND AND PREVENTION/INTERVENTION

2. Topics to be Covered  Prevalence  Definitions of bullying  Warning signs  Characteristics/risk factors of bullies  What schools should do  What teachers/staff should do  What teachers/staff should not do

3. Almost 25% of teachers report that they DO NOT think it is necessary to intervene in bullying (Feinberg, 2003)

4. Prevalence of Bullying Approximately 15-25% of students are bullied somewhat frequently 15-20% of students report their own bullying behaviors as being somewhat frequent (Melton et al.; Nansel et al., as cited in Health Resources and Services Administration, 2009) Half of surveyed students who are frequently bullied reported bullying lasted at least 6 months (Mullin-Rindler, as cited in Health Resources and Services Administration, 2009) Children with special needs may be at a greater risk (Rigby, as cited in Health Resources and Services Administration, 2009) Estimated over 13 million students ages 6-17 were victims of cyberbullying in 2006 (Feinberg & Robey, 2008) Good news – occurrences of reported physical bullying dropped to below 15% in 2008 (The Associated Press, 2010)

5. What is Bullying? Definitions vary by source Abington’s definition: The term "bullying" shall mean harassment, attack(s), or intentional electronic, written, verbal, or physical act(s), perpetrated by a student or group of students, on another student or students, which meet all of the following criteria: -occur during the school day, on school property, on a school bus, at a school-sponsored activity or event, going to and from school, or any location where the school has legal jurisdiction over a student’s conduct; -are severe, persistent or pervasive; and -include any written, verbal, or physical act

6. Direct versus Indirect Bullying Direct: physical, verbal, or non-verbal confrontation (e.g., hitting, kicking, teasing, threatening, using racial slurs, making obscene gestures) Indirect: can also be physical, verbal, or non-verbal, but without direct confrontation (e.g., getting another person to attack someone, spreading rumors, social exclusion, cyber- bullying) ( Zins, Elias, & Maher [Eds.], 2007)

7. Possible Warning Signs that a Student is Being Bullied Torn, damaged, or missing pieces of clothing, books, or other belongings Has unexplained cuts, bruises, and scratches Has few, if any, friends with whom he/she spends time Seems afraid of going to school or walking to and from school Has lost interest in school work or suddenly begins to do poorly

8. Possible Warning Signs that a Student is Being Bullied cont… Appears sad, moody, teary, or depressed Complains frequently of headaches, stomachaches, or other physical ailments Experiences loss of appetite (not eating lunch/snack) Appears anxious and suffers from low self- esteem (Health Resources and Services Administration, 2009)

9. Characteristics of Children Who Bully Regularly Impulsive, hot-headed, dominant, may misinterpret situations by focusing on hostile cues (reactive), OR lack empathy, little emotion and anxiety, accurately interpret social cues and use them to manipulate others (proactive) Easily frustrated Have difficulty following rules View violence in positive way (Health Resources and Services Administration, 2009; Zins, Elias, & Maher [Eds.], 2007)

10. Bullies - Risk Factors Family Risk Factors Lack of parent warmth and involvement Overly-permissive parenting Lack of supervision by parents Harsh, physical discipline Model for bullying behavior Peer Risk Factors Having friends who bully and have positive attitudes towards violence (Health Resources and Services Administration, 2009)

11. Common Myths About Bullying Children who bully are loners Children who bully have low self- esteem Most bullying occurs where there is no adult supervision* (Mullin-Rindler, 2003)

12. What Schools Should Do Promote warm school environment (Zins, Elias, & Maher [Eds.], 2007) Have schoolwide foundation that offers universal interventions and has specific anti-bullying rules Conduct assessments of bullying prevalence in school Early interventions that target specific risk factors and teach positive behaviors and critical thinking skills Intensive individual interventions that provide bullies and victims with individual support (Feinberg, 2003)

13. What Teachers/Staff Should DO When you see/hear bullying: immediately stop it -Stand between victim(s) and bull(y/ies) and prevent eye contact -Keep bystanders present (identify who can be interviewed later) -Using matter-of-fact tone, refer to specific bullying behavior observed and relevant school rules against it -Support victim in a manner that allows for “saving face,” regaining self-control, and feeling safe from retaliation

14. What Teachers/Staff Should DO Include bystanders in the conversation -give guidance about how to intervene or help in future -in calm, matter-of-fact tone, tell students that you observed their inaction OR that you were pleased that they tried to help Let bully know they will be watched closely regarding possible retaliation Give as much info. as possible about next steps Send suspected bully to principal and report what happened to principal/curriculum specialist; discuss with other relevant teachers Principal will follow up individually with students involved and bystanders to find out details; will impose consequences Increase supervision

15. What Teachers/Staff Should DO In general: -Intervene consistently and appropriately for both observed or suspected bullying – NEVER ignore -Devote class time to prevention -Do not show too much support in public; give supportive words and gestures in private -Spend time with the student; tell him/her you are sorry it happened and that it is not his/her fault

16. What Teachers/Staff Should DO -Praise student for courage to share -Ask student what is needed for him/her to feel safe -emphasize confidential nature of discussion -share who else needs to know -Do not reveal to bully who reporter was (especially if it was the victim) – say you learned about it from many sources, including other adults

17. What Teachers/Staff Should DO -Help the victim make friends -Encourage parent support of student, if possible -Follow up with student who has been bullied -Have discussion and practice opportunities to encourage bystanders to speak up in future -If appropriate, make a mental health referral -Some bully victims may benefit from social skills training

18. What Teachers/Staff Should DO -Make clear to students that you take bullying seriously and that it is not allowed ANYWHERE in school. Expectations of students should be that they: -should not bully others -should be helpful and kind to students who are bullied -should report bullying that they experience or witness to you or other adults at school -Integrate bullying prevention themes across curriculum

19. DON’Ts Don’t do further damage by lending too much support in public Don’t require students to apologize or make amends during heat of the moment Don’t force a meeting between bully and student who was bullied Don’t immediately ask (victim or bystanders) about what happened at time of incident (Health Resources and Services Administration, 2009)

20. References Feinberg, T., & Robey, N. (2008). Cyberbullying: Whether it happens at school or off- campus, cyberbullying disrupts and affects all aspects of students’ lives. Principal Leadership, 10-14. Feinberg, T. (2003). Bullying prevention and intervention. Principal Leadership, 10-14. Health Resources and Services Administration. 2009. What can adults do? Retrieved from http://www.stopbullyingnow.hrsa.gov/adults/default.aspxhttp://www.stopbullyingnow.hrsa.gov/adults/default.aspx Mullin-Rindler, N. (2003). Facts about bullying. Project on Teasing and Bullying. The Associated Press. (2010, March 3). Sharp drop seen in children’s bullying: Percentage of kids physically bullied fell to 15 percent in ‘08. Msnbc.com. Retrieved from http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/35694785/ns/health- kids_and_parentinghttp://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/35694785/ns/health- kids_and_parenting Zins, J.E., Elias, M. J., Maher, C.A. (Eds.). (2007). Bullying, victimization, and peer harassment: A handbook of prevention and intervention. New York: The Haworth Press.