2. Work The Two Major Aspects of Life:

3. Pursuing / Maintaining a Family The Two Major Aspects of Life:

4. My greatest lesson of 2006: I choose where I cheat My greatest lesson of 2006: I choose where I cheat

5. “The issue is never, ‘Am I cheating?’ The issue is always, ‘Where am I cheating?’ Or, ‘Where am I choosing to cheat?’” Andy Stanley

6. “Because of our proclivity to veer in the direction of things that stroke our egos, we tend to cheat at home. We give an inordinate amount of our time, energy, and passion to our work.” Andy Stanley

7. “… upon this rock I will build my church, and all the powers of hell will not conquer it.” - Jesus, in Matthew 16:18 (NLT) Husbands, love your wives and never treat them harshly. - Colossians 3:19 (NLT) “… upon this rock I will build my church, and all the powers of hell will not conquer it.” - Jesus, in Matthew 16:18 (NLT) Husbands, love your wives and never treat them harshly. - Colossians 3:19 (NLT)

8. Work hard and cheerfully at whatever you do, as though you were working for the Lord rather than for people. - Colossians 3:23 (NLT) Work hard and cheerfully at whatever you do, as though you were working for the Lord rather than for people. - Colossians 3:23 (NLT)

9. So I turned in despair from hard work. It was not the answer to my search for satisfaction in this life. - Ecclesiastes 2:20 (NLT) So I turned in despair from hard work. It was not the answer to my search for satisfaction in this life. - Ecclesiastes 2:20 (NLT)

10. Do not deprive each other except by mutual consent and for a time, so that you may devote yourselves to prayer. Then come together again so that Satan will not tempt you because of your lack of self- control. - 1 Corinthians 7:5 (NIV) Do not deprive each other except by mutual consent and for a time, so that you may devote yourselves to prayer. Then come together again so that Satan will not tempt you because of your lack of self- control. - 1 Corinthians 7:5 (NIV)

11. For husbands, this means love your wives, just as Christ loved the church. He gave up his life for her… So again I say, each man must love his wife as he loves himself, and the wife must respect her husband. - Ephesians 5:25, 33 (NLT) For husbands, this means love your wives, just as Christ loved the church. He gave up his life for her… So again I say, each man must love his wife as he loves himself, and the wife must respect her husband. - Ephesians 5:25, 33 (NLT)

12. “The problem is, you love your family in your heart, but you don’t love them in your schedule. And they can’t see your heart.” Andy Stanley

13. “Cheating at home is translated as rejection.” Andy Stanley