1. 4 Pillars

2. Receive forgiveness
Forgive
Love Deeply
Honor

3. Receive Forgiveness All have sinned
Romans 3:23 (NIV) 23 for all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God,
We need a savior
Romans 3:22-24 (NIV) 22 This righteousness from God comes through faith in Jesus Christ to all who believe. There is no difference, 23 for all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God, 24 and are justified freely by his grace through the redemption that came by Christ Jesus.

4. We have a Savior!
John 3:16-17 (NIV) 16 "For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life For God did not send his Son into the world to condemn the world, but to save the world through him.

5. Forgiveness only comes by the blood
Hebrews 9:22 (NIV) 22 In fact, the law requires that nearly everything be cleansed with blood, and without the shedding of blood there is no forgiveness.
Matthew 26:28 (NIV) 28 This is my blood of the covenant, which is poured out for many for the forgiveness of sins.
Ephesians 1:7 (NIV) 7 In him we have redemption through his blood, the forgiveness of sins, in accordance with the riches of God's grace

6. 1 John 1:9 (NIV) 9 If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just and will forgive us our sins and purify us from all unrighteousness.

7. Forgive:
John 20:21-23 (NIV) 21 Again Jesus said, "Peace be with you! As the Father has sent me, I am sending you." 22 And with that he breathed on them and said, "Receive the Holy Spirit If you forgive anyone his sins, they are forgiven; if you do not forgive them, they are not forgiven."
Colossians 3:13 (NIV) 13 Bear with each other and forgive whatever grievances you may have against one another. Forgive as the Lord forgave you.

8. Recognize if we start making inner-vows:
I will never:
Let someone get that close again
Trust anyone in this area
Give to a stranger
Try something new
Reach out

9. Love Deeply
1 Peter 1:22 (NIV) 22 Now that you have purified yourselves by obeying the truth so that you have sincere love for your brothers, love one another deeply, from the heart.
1 Peter 4:8 (NIV) 8 Above all, love each other deeply, because love covers over a multitude of sins.

10. Honor
Romans 12:10 (NIV) 10 Be devoted to one another in brotherly love. Honor one another above yourselves.