1. Module #4: Expectations of 4-H Parents “I’m a 4-H Parent…Now What?” Indiana 4-H Parent Resource Series for Extension Educators, Volunteers, and Parents Compiled by Steve McKinley, Extension Specialist, Leadership & Volunteerism “Extension educators and local leaders may kindle the flame in youth, but it takes the good will and help of parents to keep the fire burning." 1

2. Objective: List expectations of 4-H parents. Question to answer: What are the expectations of parents within the 4-H Program? 2

3. Expectations of 4-H Parents  Make a sincere effort to have your children at 4-H Club meetings and activities.  Pick up your children from 4-H Club meetings and activities promptly.  Advise your children in selecting 4-H projects that are appropriate for them.  Learn about 4-H with your children. 3

4. Expectations of 4-H Parents  Keep informed about 4-H through information that comes to members of your family.  Help your children learn responsibility by encouraging them to complete their 4-H projects.  Be a guide, advisor, teacher, and counselor to your children as they work on 4-H projects and activities …BUT, don’t do the job for them. 4

5. Expectations of 4-H Parents  Be a good example! Help your children be good sports and appreciate the successes of others.  Encourage your children when they succeed & even more when they fail. Help them see progress; not just the end result. Children will gain confidence and a sense of security when they know their parents approve of their work. 5

6. Expectations of 4-H Parents  Help children learn to make choices and decisions.  Help children understand their capabilities and reach their potential.  Support your 4-H Club with your time and talents. Be a positive, active parental influence. 6