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1 CONNECT RIGHT Enriching your marriage & getting more out of your life DR VIJAY NAGASWAMI

2 About Dr. Vijay Nagaswami Relationship Expert with 27years of experience Highly sought after marital therapist with pan India clients and visiting NRI’s. Wide experience - Deputy Director of Schizophrenia Research Foundation (India), Adviser to WHO & ILO, heading HR function in the corporate world, corporate therapy Author of several bestsellers on the subject of marriage

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5 Prita Maitra – Editor in chief of Westland - about Dr. Nagaswami “….in assessing the success of Vijay Nagaswami's two titles in Westland's series dwelling on the 'The New Indian Marriage' so far, The 24 X 7 Marriage and The Fifty-50 Marriage, one should start with the numbers, which are always telling!The first has already sold 15,000 copies and the second 7,000 + and counting. Dr Nagaswami's fluent and non-judgemental style invites the confidence of readers who have previously been at a loss coming to terms with the changing demands of an equal marriage in India today. In a country which is increasingly looking to professional guidance -- rather than parental dictates -- in terms of choosing (and keeping) a spouse, he has rendered priceless advice…”

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7 Deccan Herald, Bangalore

8 Fortnightly Column in “The Hindu” By Dr Vijay Nagaswami

9 Importance of marital harmony and life space balance

10 A balance in life spaces is a must - for productive work life and enriched personal life

11 Early in career, work assumes greater significance

12 Marriage puts pressure on work equation.. reaching a balance becomes a struggle

13 A little later, work demands increase and marital equation gets disturbed

14 Result – life space balance is lost  Too many demands on self.  A vicious cycle sets in.  Productivity drops.  Enthusiasm gets hit.  General feeling of well- being reduces

15 Optimal investment in two important lifespaces is key to success Optimal investment in work space gives  feeling of productivity  Self esteem  Lifestyle  Status Optimal investment in marriage space gives  sense of self-worth and contentment  opportunity to re-charge ourselves  feeling of groundedness & rootedness

16 While workspace (survival) is taken care of, marriage space (happiness) is not… work space taken care of  we receive adequate training to achieve whatever the workspace promises us Relationship space is ignored  we pretty much wing it, hoping things will magically become better in the years to come  they rarely do, and emotional baggage full of unresolved conflicts accumulate  and neither partner has the tools to deal with them, since  factory-set defaults don’t work very well

17 Enriching the marital space is done by  Increased connectedness and intimacy  creating and respecting ‘i’ and ‘we’ spaces  learning how to solve problems together  defining a marriage template that works for both of them

18 “THE CONNECT RIGHT” Programme CONVERSATIONS SEMINARS WORKSHOPS To get an overview and thoughts for actions To get a deeper understanding, appreciation and thoughts for actions To engage, share, process learning's thro group activities, talks and discussions

19 “THE CONNECT RIGHT” SEMINARS DURATIONTHREE HOUR SESSIONS TARGET POPULATIONMARRIED INDIVIDUALS AND COUPLES GROUP SIZE15 to 40 INDIVIDUALS PERSONAL SHARINGNOT EXPECTED TONELIGHT, OVERVIEW ISSUES ADDRESSEDNEEDS & EXPECTATIONS, DOING THINGS TOGETHER SMART COMMUNICATION 101, WHO’S THE BOSS? FIGHT SMART, WORK AND MARRIAGE BALANCE & MANY MORE ASPECTS OF THE MARRIAGE. EACH ISSUE WILL BE COVERED BY ONE SEMINAR METHODTALK BY FACILITATOR PUNCTUATED BY SMALL ROLE-PLAYS BY PARTICIPANT VOLUNTEERS

20 “THE CONNECT RIGHT” CONVERSATIONS DURATIONTWO HOUR SESSIONS TARGET POPULATIONMARRIED INDIVIDUALS AND COUPLES GROUP SIZE10 to 12 INDIVIDUALS PERSONAL SHARINGPREFERABLE, BUT NOT COMPULSORY TONESERIOUS, INTENSE ISSUES ADDRESSEDNEEDS & EXPECTATIONS, DOING THINGS TOGETHER ME & MY FAMILY Vs YOU AND YOUR FAMILY, WHO’S THE BOSS? FIGHT SMART, CHILDREN AND THE MARRIAGE, INTIMACY AND MANY MORE ISSUES IN THE MARRIAGE EACH ‘CONVERSATION’ WILL ADDRESS ONE ISSUE METHODTHEME INTRODUCED BY FACILITATOR AND ISSUES DISCUSSED IN DEPTH WITH PARTICIPANTS.

21 “THE CONNECT RIGHT” WORKSHOPS DURATION1 – 2 DAYS (PREFERABLY RETREAT) TARGET POPULATIONONLY FOR MARRIED COUPLES GROUP SIZE10 to 15 COUPLES PERSONAL SHARINGSOME SHARING DESIRABLE, BUT NOT COMPULSORY TONESERIOUS WITH LIGHT INTERLUDES ISSUES ADDRESSEDWORSHOP 1: THE 24X7 MARRIAGE: LAYING THE FOUNDATIONS WORKSHOP 2: THE FIFTY-50 MARRIAGE: RETURN TO INTIMACY METHODTALKS, DISCUSSIONS, SMALL GROUP ACTIVITIES, COUPLE ACTIVITIES, SHARING, PROCESSING

22 Your Investment in “THE CONNECT RIGHT” Programme CONVERSATIONS SEMINARS WORKSHOPS Mail to anitagupta2@gmail.com anitagupta2@gmail.com Or Call +919840066987


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