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1transactional analysis Transactional Analysis is one of the most accessible theories of modern psychology.Transactional Analysis was founded by Eric Berne, and the famous 'parent adult child' theory is still being developed today.Transactional Analysis has wide applications in clinical, therapeutic, organizational and personal development, encompassing communications, management, personality, relationships and behaviour.
2transactional analysis roots of transactional analysisIn the early 20th century, Sigmund Freud first established that the human psyche is multi-faceted, and that each of us has warring factions in our subconscious. Since then, new theories continue to be put forward, all concentrating on the essential conviction that each one of us has parts of our personality which surface and affect our behaviour according to different circumstances.In 1951 Dr Wilder Penfield began a series of scientific experiments. Penfield proved, using conscious human subjects, by touching a part of the brain (the temporal cortex) with a weak electrical probe, that the brain could be caused to 'play back' certain past experiences, and the feelings associated with them.
3transactional analysis Penfield's experiments went on over several years, and resulted in wide acceptance of the following conclusions:The human brain acts like a tape recorder, and whilst we may 'forget' experiences, the brain still has them recorded.Along with events the brain also records the associated feelings, and both feelings and events stay locked together.It is possible for a person to exist in two states simultaneously (because patients replaying hidden events and feelings could talk about them objectively at the same time).Hidden experiences when replayed are vivid, and affect how we feel at the time of replaying.There is a certain connection between mind and body, i.e. the link between the biological and the psychological, eg a psychological fear of spiders and a biological feeling of nausea.
4transactional analysis early transactional analysis theory and modelIn the 1950's Eric Berne began to develop his theories of Transactional Analysis. He said that verbal communication, particularly face to face, is at the centre of human social relationships and psychoanalysis.His starting-point was that when two people encounter each other, one of them will speak to the other. This he called the Transaction Stimulus. The reaction from the other person he called the Transaction Response.The person sending the Stimulus is called the Agent. The person who responds is called the Respondent.Transactional Analysis became the method of examining the transaction wherein: 'I do something to you, and you do something back'.
5transactional analysis early transactional analysis theory and modelBerne also said that each person is made up of three alter ego states:ParentAdultChild
6transactional analysis early transactional analysis theory and modelParentThis is our ingrained voice of authority, absorbed conditioning, learning and attitudes from when we were young. We were conditioned by our real parents, teachers, older people, next door neighbours, aunts and uncles, Father Christmas and Jack Frost. Our Parent is made up of a huge number of hidden and overt recorded playbacks. Typically embodied by phrases and attitudes starting with 'how to', 'under no circumstances', 'always' and 'never forget', 'don't lie, cheat, steal', etc, etc. Our parent is formed by external events and influences upon us as we grow through early childhood. We can change it, but this is easier said than done.
7transactional analysis early transactional analysis theory and modelChildOur internal reaction and feelings to external events form the 'Child'. This is the seeing, hearing, feeling, and emotional body of data within each of us. When anger or despair dominates reason, the Child is in control. Like our Parent we can change it, but it is no easier.AdultOur 'Adult' is our ability to think and determine action for ourselves, based on received data. The adult in us begins to form at around ten months old, and is the means by which we keep our Parent and Child under control. If we are to change our Parent or Child we must do so through our adult.
8transactional analysis early transactional analysis theory and modelIn other words:Parent is our 'Taught' concept of lifeAdult is our 'Thought' concept of lifeChild is our 'Felt' concept of lifeWhen we communicate we are doing so from one of our own alter ego states, our Parent, Adult or Child. Our feelings at the time determine which one we use, and at any time something can trigger a shift from one state to another. When we respond, we are also doing this from one of the three states, and it is in the analysis of these stimuli and responses that the essence of Transactional Analysis lies.
9transactional analysis early transactional analysis theory and modelAt the core of Berne's theory is the rule that effective transactions (ie successful communications) must be complementary. They must go back from the receiving ego state to the sending ego state. For example, if the stimulus is Parent to Child, the response must be Child to Parent, or the transaction is 'crossed', and there will be a problem between sender and receiver.If a crossed transaction occurs, there is an ineffective communication. Worse still either or both parties will be upset. In order for the relationship to continue smoothly the agent or the respondent must rescue the situation with a complementary transaction.
10transactional analysis early transactional analysis theory and model! Problem TransactionCritical Parent Critical ParentCritical Parent Rebellious ChildCritical Parent Adaptive Child! DangerNurturing Parent Adaptive ChildAdult Free Child! OpportunityAdult AdultFree Child Free Child
11transactional analysis early transactional analysis theory and modelComplimentary RelationshipsPPAACC
12transactional analysis early transactional analysis theory and modelCrossed RelationshipsCPPAACRC
13transactional analysis early transactional analysis theory and modelIn serious break-downs, there is no chance of immediately resuming a discussion about the original subject matter. Attention is focused on the relationship. The discussion can only continue constructively when and if the relationship is mended.Here are some simple clues as to the ego state sending the signal. You will be able to see these clearly in others, and in yourself:
14transactional analysis early transactional analysis theory and modelParentPhysical - angry or impatient body-language and expressions, finger-pointing, patronising gestures.Verbal - always, never, for once and for all, judgmental words, critical words, patronising language, posturing language.
15transactional analysis early transactional analysis theory and modelChildPhysical - emotionally sad expressions, despair, temper tantrums, whining voice, rolling eyes, shrugging shoulders, teasing, delight, laughter, speaking behind hand, raising hand to speak, squirming and giggling.Verbal - baby talk, I wish, I dunno, I want, I'm gonna, I don't care, oh no, not again, things never go right for me, worst day of my life, bigger, biggest, best, many superlatives, words to impress.
16transactional analysis early transactional analysis theory and modelAdultPhysical - attentive, interested, straight-forward, tilted head, non-threatening and non-threatened.Verbal - why, what, how, who, where and when, how much, in what way, comparative expressions, reasoned statements, true, false, probably, possibly, I think, I realise, I see, I believe, in my opinion.
17transactional analysis early transactional analysis theory and modelAnd remember, when you are trying to identify ego states: words are only part of the story.To analyse a transaction you need to see and feel what is being said as well.Only 7% of meaning is in the words spoken.38% of meaning is paralinguistic (the way that the words are said).55% is in facial expression.There is no general rule as to the effectiveness of any ego state in any given situation (some people get results by being dictatorial (Parent to Child), or by having temper tantrums, (Child to Parent), but for a balanced approach to life, Adult to Adult is generally recommended.
18transactional analysis early transactional analysis theory and modelLet’s focus for a moment on Paralinguistic Communication.Paralinguistic communication is the study of voice and how words are said. When you open your mouth to speak, you reveal much about yourself that often has nothing at all to do with the words you are speaking.Paralinguistic signals and cues refer to every element and nuance of your speech. Paralinguistic communication can be much more subtle than other forms of nonverbal communication.
19transactional analysis early transactional analysis theory and modelFor example, a loud, booming voice is not at all subtle. However, a firm voice that conveys conviction is more nuanced than a pointing finger, big gestures, or invading someone's personal space. Here are some common paralinguistic vocal cues and examples:Rate/Speedto establish instant vocal rapport and a more subtle connection, speak at a rate or speed similar to the person you are communicating with in conversation.RhythmNo matter what your native language is, if you match the rate and rhythm of speech of the slowest speaking person, it will be easier to communicate and connect on a paralinguistic level.
20transactional analysis early transactional analysis theory and modelExamples continued…VolumeResearch indicates that confidence, assertiveness, and boldness are reflected in louder speech. This doesn't mean that you go around speaking loudly but if you need to "raise the stakes" or occur more assertive, raising your vocal volume will help you to do this.PitchA high-pitched voice can often time sound squeaky or childlike. Many people associate lower pitches with greater credibility, maturity and authority. It is important to note that the pitches you choose to speak on most should be in your most powerful vocal range. Even though a lower pitched voice is often considered more credible, you should never force your voice so low that you lose vocal power or vocal focus.
21transactional analysis early transactional analysis theory and modelExamples continued…Inflection/Vocal VarietyInflection refers to variations in pitch. Too much inflection can undermine credibility. Too little will be boring and monotonous.QualityQuality usually refers to the vocal characteristics that allow you to differentiate one voice from another. Is a person's voice small, feminine, or shaky; thin, throaty, or aloof; tense, flat, grating, nasal, harsh, or shrill? All of these represent different vocal combinations of rate, pitch, and volume. Each will determine how you choose to transact with them.Intensity/ToneThis reveals the emotion behind the words being spoken.
22transactional analysis early transactional analysis theory and modelExamples continued…Inflection/Vocal VarietyInflection refers to variations in pitch. Too much inflection can undermine credibility. Too little will be boring and monotonous.QualityQuality usually refers to the vocal characteristics that allow you to differentiate one voice from another. Is a person's voice small, feminine, or shaky; thin, throaty, or aloof; tense, flat, grating, nasal, harsh, or shrill? All of these represent different vocal combinations of rate, pitch, and volume. Each will determine how you choose to transact with them.Intensity/ToneThis reveals the emotion behind the words being spoken.
23transactional analysis early transactional analysis theory and modelAn assertive listener will be able to connect face to face and create instant rapport with someone on the telephone by being aware of the subtle nuances of paralinguistic communication. When you match & mirror vocal characteristics without mockery but with the intention to authentically connect with the people you are speaking with, you will be amazed at how quickly and easily you can establish vocal rapport that leads to greater understanding and more efficient paralinguistic communication. Being aware of your own paralinguistic vocal strengths and weaknesses will allow you to subtly influence your speaking and listening so that you will be a more powerful communicator.
24transactional analysis early transactional analysis theory and modelTransactional Analysis is effectively a language within a language; a language of true meaning, feeling and motive. It can help you in every situation, firstly through being able to understand more clearly what is going on, and secondly, by virtue of this knowledge, we give ourselves choices of what ego states to adopt, which signals to send, and where to send them. This enables us to make the most of all our communications and therefore create, develop and maintain better relationships.
25transactional analysis modern transactional analysis theoryTransactional Analysis is a theory which operates as each of the following:a theory of personalitya model of communicationa study of repetitive patterns of behaviourTransactional Analysis has developed significantly beyond Berne's early theories, by Berne himself, until his death in 1970, and since then by his followers and many current writers and experts. Transactional Analysis has been explored and enhanced in many different ways.
26transactional analysis modern transactional analysis theorySignificantly, the original three Parent Adult Child components were sub-divided to form a new seven element model, principally during the 1980's by Wagner, Joines and Mountain. This established Controlling and Nurturing aspects of the Parent mode, each with positive and negative aspects, and the Adapted and Free aspects of the Child mode, again each with positive an negative aspects, which essentially gives us the model to which most TA practitioners refer today:
27transactional analysis modern transactional analysis theoryParentParent is now commonly represented as a circle with four quadrants:Nurturing - Nurturing (positive) and Spoiling (negative).Controlling - Structuring (positive) and Critical (negative).
28transactional analysis modern transactional analysis theoryAdultAdult remains as a single entity, representing an 'accounting' function or mode, which can draw on the resources of both Parent and Child.ChildChild is now commonly represented as circle with four quadrants:Adapted - Co-operative (positive) and Compliant/Resistant (negative).Free - Spontaneous (positive) and Immature (negative).
29transactional analysis modern transactional analysis theoryWhere previously Transactional Analysis suggested that effective communications were complementary (response echoing the path of the stimulus), and better still complementary adult to adult, the modern interpretation suggests that effective communications and relationships are based on complementary transactions to and from positive quadrants, and also, still, adult to adult. Stimulii and responses can come from any (or some) of these seven ego states, to any or some of the respondent's seven ego states.
30transactional analysis modern transactional analysis theoryThis model shows how we function or behave with others. The model used here is divided up into nine quadrants of effective and ineffective modes.CP – NPFC – ACCP – FCCP – ACNP – FCNP – ACA – A
31transactional analysis modern transactional analysis theoryineffective modesNegative Controlling Parent - communicates a "You're not OK" message, and is punitive.Negative Nurturing Parent - communicates a "You're not OK" message. When in this mode the person will often do things for others which they are capable of doing for themselves. When in this mode the person is engulfing and overprotective.Negative Adapted Child - expresses an "I'm not OK" message. When in this mode the person over-adapts to others and tends to experience such emotions as depression, unrealistic fear and anxiety.Negative Free Child - in this mode the person runs wild with no restrictions or boundaries. In this mode they express a "You're not OK" message.
32transactional analysis modern transactional analysis theoryeffective modesPositive Nurturing Parent - communicates the message "You're OK". When in this mode the person is caring and affirming.Positive Controlling Parent - communicates the message "You're OK". This is the boundary setting mode, offering constructive criticism, whilst being caring but firm.Positive Adapted Child - communicates an "I'm OK" message. From this mode we learn the rules to help us live with others.Positive Free Child - communicates an "I'm OK" message. This is the creative, fun loving, curious and energetic mode.Accounting mode - communicates "We're OK" messages. The Adult is able to assess reality in the here and now. When the Accounting mode is in the executive position it is possible to choose which of the other effective modes to go into, dependent on the situation. This is then called Accounting Mode. When using the descriptive behavioural model the term Accounting Mode helps to differentiate it from the structural model where it is referred to as Adult. When stable in this Accounting Mode we are taking account of the present context and situation and deciding the most appropriate mode to come from. We are then able to respond appropriately rather than flipping into archaic or historic ways of being, thinking and behaving which are likely to be inappropriate and unhelpful.
33transactional analysis modern transactional analysis theory - life positions & the ‘okay corral’life positions are perceptions of the world. They are basic beliefs about self and others, which are used to justify decisions and behaviour. 'Okay Corral' can be linked to blameI'm to blame (You are okay and I'm not okay - 'helpless')You are to blame (I'm okay and you are not okay - 'angry')We are both to blame (I'm not okay and you are not okay - 'hopeless')
34transactional analysis useful books about transactional analysisTA today - ian stewart & vann joinesThe best introduction and modern guide to Eric Berne's Transactional Analysis theories. Absolutely fascinating, brilliantly written and explained.Games people play - eric berneBy the founder of Transactional Analysis, a simple and illuminating book about people's behaviour. We all play these games...what do you say after you say hello - eric berneAnother enlightening and significant book by the founder of Transactional Analysis, Eric Berne.