1. NAMASKAR
Positive attitude
for excellence
Kedar Rayamajhi, 2017

2. A few requests: Please make your mobile phone off or on silent mode
Take breaks only at the end of the session
Engage yourself in active dialogue and listening

3. An attitude is a person’s point of view towards something.
Concept of attitude:
“Attitudes are likes and dislikes – favorable or unfavorable evaluations of and reactions to objects, people, situations, or any other aspects of the world including abstract ideas and social policies”.
An attitude is a person’s point of view towards something.

4. Characteristics of attitude…
Attitudes are not innate
It is more or less enduring once they are formed
It stabilize a relationship between the person and object
The relation has motivational and affective properties
It encompass a small or large number of items

6. Pause and Ponder
This is attitude…
Your attitude is your window to the world better keep yourself clean and bright; you are the window through which you must see the world. — George Bernard Shaw

7. Pause and Ponder
The positive thinker sees the invisible, feels the intangible, and achieves the impossible. Unknown “Ninety percent of the input in your minds today is negative.” Zig Ziglar

8. Pause and Ponder
“Any fool can criticize, condemn and complain— And most fools do.” —DALE CARNEGIE “The only disability in life is a bad attitude.” —SCOTT HAMILTON

9. The Power of a Positive Attitude
• High confidence.
• Planning ahead.
• Encouraging others.
• Showing appreciation.
• Thoroughness.
• Conscientiousness
• Alertness.

10. “Don’t ask,It’s not my day. “Thank God it’s Friday.”
Negative Responses
The negative replies to How are you? include phrases such as:
“Lousy.”
“Terrible.”
“I’m tired.”
“Don’t ask,It’s not my day.
“Thank God it’s Friday.”
“A day older and a dollar broker.”

11. Learning to appreciate
Artists do not look at a landscape and ask what is wrong with the picture, their focus is to look for what is valuable.
Strength matters

12. Have we ever thought?
Large proportion of potentials is unused at individual and organizations level.
What would happen if we can see and unleash some of these potentials?

13. A new way of thinking and doing is the most….
“No problem can be solved from the same level of thinking that created it. We must learn to see the world anew.”
-Albert Einstein

14. How can we develop a new level of thinking?

15. Learning is the key…

16. “The illiterate of the 21st century will not be those who cannot read and write, but those who cannot learn, unlearn and relearn.”
~ Alvin Toffler

17. “Yesterday’s graduate stops learning today and becomes uneducated tomorrow”
-Unknown

18. Unlearning is also equally important

19. Attitude learning to change
I am too old to learn.
Learning is restricted to schools & colleges only. Because we get degree/diploma certificate.
Nobody is a potential source of learning for me.
If I learn, I will be over burdened with work.

20. Negative attitude
Criticizing organisation in public places
Always find faults in the organisation
Taking job casually
Hiding capacity to perform
Setting low targets

21. continuous Concealing information from others
Ganging up against someone
Generating false report to please top management
Preference for comforts and pomp & show
Never serious about performance

22. Kind of “Glasses of listening and learning” that people generally carry

23. FACTORS THAT DETERMINE OUR ATTITUDE
1. ENVIRONMENT
2. EXPERIENCE
3. EDUCATION
In a positive environment, a marginal performer’s output goes up. And in a negative environment, a good performer’s output goes down.

24. !
IT IS THE ATTITUDE
THAT MAKES US GO UP.

25. “The foundation of success regardless of your chosen field, is ATTITUDE”
-Shiv Khera
In his book YOU CAN WIN

26. VALUES – STANDARDS – JUDGMENTS MOTIVES – ETHICS - BELIEFS
THE ICEBERG
BEHAVIOR
KNOWN
TO OTHERS
SEA LEVEL
UNKNOWN
TO OTHERS
IMPACT
VALUES – STANDARDS – JUDGMENTS
ATTITUDE
MOTIVES – ETHICS - BELIEFS

27. INTENTIONS/ATTITUDES
BEHAVIOR/SKILLS
CULTURE/VALUES
SYSTEMS/STRUCTURE

28. Commitment, motivation Enthusiasm, inspiration Feelings, emotions
INTENTIONS/ATTITUDES
Attitude, ways of thinking
Commitment, motivation
Enthusiasm, inspiration
Feelings, emotions
Self-expression (arts, etc)
BEHAVIOR/SKILLS
Behavior, actions
Goals and results
Work plans
Movements
CULTURE/VALUES (intersubjectivity) · Shared values/principles
Shared assumptions
Morals, ethics
Covenants
Language, conversations
Religion, spirituality
SYSTEMS/STRUCTURE (interobjectivity) · Structures · Process, procedures · Policies, laws · Coordinated actions · Resources, money · Technology · Logical frameworks
The model of Ken Wilber
DIAGRAM

29. Putting on the Armor
Change
3 Things!

30. Steps to develop positive attitude
Look at the bright side of life. Focus at positive.
Find reasons to smile more often.
Contemplate upon the futility of negative thinking and worries.
Associate yourself with happy and positive people.
Read inspiring stories. Read inspiring quotes.
Develop an attitude of gratitude

31. Positive attitude can be developed by following means:
Positive mindset can be developed by self awareness and reflection
Active listening
Feeling of respect to the service seeker
Feeling responsible
Quick responsiveness
Showing empathy
Read more new books and generate new ideas
Look at the positive side of the life

32. You are the designer of your destiny. You are the author
You are the designer of your destiny. You are the author. You write the story. The pen is in your hand and the outcome is in your hand.
Lisa Nichols

33. All blame is a waste of time
All blame is a waste of time. No matter how much fault you find with another, and regardless of how much you blame him, it will not change you.
WAYNE DYER
Coauthor of How to Get What You Really, Really, Really, Really Want

34. NLP Principles
We do not experience the world as it is – we experience a model of the world. The map is not the territory.
Must to have respect for other people's model of the world.
I control my mind and thus my results.
There is no failure, only feedback.

35. Continued IF AN EGG IS BROKEN BY AN OUTSIDE FORCE..A LIFE ENDS.
IF AN EGG BREAKS FROM WITHIN LIFE BEGINS.
GREAT THINGS ALWAYS BEGIN FROM WITHIN.

36. WISH YOU VERY HAPPY TIME
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WISH YOU VERY HAPPY TIME
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