1. The Creator’s Choice - Family Our Focus Must Be Right  I am not here to change my spouse or others. But to ask the Holy Spirit to change me.  I am not here to pray so that God can help others to see His truths. But I am here to ask the Holy Spirit to help me to receive God’s truths so that I can be set free.  My family can only be changed for the better to serve God if I am first changed.  I submit myself totally to God and His Word expecting the Holy Spirit to do far greater things than my greatest expectations and desires.  I am serious and willing to pay and pray the price and do God’s will as He guides me.

2. Husband and Wife The Creator’s Choice - Family Order Acceptance Clarity Protection Authority Power Unity Agreeing on The Word Knowledge Wisdom Character Blessing Anointing Love

3. Husband and Wife The Creator’s Choice - Family Eph 5:21 Submitting yourselves one to another in the fear of God. 22Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as unto the Lord. 23For the husband is the head of the wife, even as Christ is the head of the church: and he is the saviour of the body. 24Therefore as the church is subject unto Christ, so let the wives be to their own husbands in every thing. 25Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the church, and gave himself for it;

4. Husband and Wife The Creator’s Choice - Family 27That he might sanctify and cleanse it with the washing of water by the word, 28That he might present it to himself a glorious church, not having spot, or wrinkle, or any such thing; but that it should be holy and without blemish. 28So ought men to love their wives as their own bodies. He that loveth his wife loveth himself. 29For no man ever yet hated his own flesh; but nourisheth and cherisheth it, even as the Lord the church: 30For we are members of his body, of his flesh, and of his bones.

5. 31For this cause shall a man leave his father and mother, and shall be joined unto his wife, and they two shall be one flesh. 32This is a great mystery: but I speak concerning Christ and the church. 33Nevertheless let every one of you in particular so love his wife even as himself; and the wife see that she reverence her husband.

6. Husband and Wife The Creator’s Choice - Family Wife Submits Husband Loves Christ Christ Loves Church Submits Husband Wife Church God chooses women to show their husbands how to submit and men to show their wives how to love The Divine Love Story

7. Husband and Wife The Creator’s Choice - Family A husband should love his wife o Unconditionally (agape) o Responsibly o Generously o Intimately o Spiritually

8. Husband and Wife The Creator’s Choice - Family o Reverentially o Submissively o Unreservedly o Spontaneously o Spiritually A wife should love her husband

9. Husband and Wife The Creator’s Choice - Family What Women Want From Their Men o Leadership o Communication o Security o Intimacy

10. Husband and Wife The Creator’s Choice - Family What Men Want From Their Women o Honour o Physical Affection o Companionship o Understanding

11. The Creator’s Choice - Family Let’s Talk about It What does love your wife means in your family? What does submit to your husband mean in your family? Do you understand the wants of your spouse? How can you fulfil them? Roles of A Couple Pillow Talk Have an open discussion on the pillow talks of the past two weeks. If you have not done them ask why? Too busy? Couldn’t careless? Or Your marriage has no need for improvement? What have you learned? Start communicating regarding each other’s wants. See how can you begin to fulfil your role.