1. Influence with Inspiration Needs, Virtues and Kind of Person

2. COAHING – Model FOOD AND WATER SHELTHER AND SAFETY BELONGING ESTEEM FROM OTHERS SELF ESTEEM SELF ACTUALIZATI ON TELLING CULTURE COACH MOTIVATORS Values & Meaning Empowerment Prestige Community Housing Pay MASLOW’S HIERARCHY OF NEEDS CERTAINITY SIGNIFIANCE LOVE & CONNECTION VARIETY GROWTH & CONTRIBUTION

3. CERTAINITY VARIETY SIGNIFICANCE LOVE & CONNECTION GROWTHCONTRIBUTION THE 6 HUMAN NEEDS

4. CERTAINITY THE NEED FOR CERTAINTY - SURVIVAL NEEDS WAYS OF FULLFILLING CERTAINTY MONEY IN THE BANK MAKING THINGS CLEAN CONTROLLING EVERYTHING NEGATIVELY LABELLING THEMSELVES DOING THE SAME THING DAY BY DAY RELATIONSHIP SLEEPING EATING TOO MUCH CERTAINITY CREATES BOREDOM – I NEED VARIETY IN LIFE!

5. VARIETY NEED MORE CHALLENGES – SPICE OF LIFE – EXCITEMENT – FUN WAYS OF GETTING VARIETY MEANT DOING DIFFERENT ACTIVITIES BEING SPONTANTOES START FIGHTS CREATE DRAMA CHANGE OF CAREER LEAVING AND STARTING NEW RELATIONSHIPS HAVE AN AFFAIR TOO MUCH VARIETY – LEADS TO OVERWHELM – LOOK FOR WAYS OF GETTING CERTAINITY BACK

6. SIGNIFICANCE THE NEED TO FEEL UNIQUE – IMPORTANCE, NEEDED, DIFFERENT, SENSE OF MEANING – SPECIAL WAYS OF GETTING THIS NEED MEANT MONEY DESIRE TO BE THE BEST HYPOCHONDRIACS ADDICTION TO CRISES CRITICISING OTHERS USING VIOLENCE HIGH ACHIEVERS YOU CANNOT DEMAND SIGNIFICANCE – IF YOU DO, YOU RARELY GET IT – EGO TAKES OVER – FEEL LONELY, SEPARAED AND DISTANCED FROM OTHERS – NOW YOU WANT LOVE AND CONNECTION

7. LOVE AND CONNECTION WE ALL NEED TO CONNECT WITH OTHERS HOW DO WE FULLFILL THIS NEED? EXPRESSING LOVE JOINING A GROUP SEXUALITY AND SENSUALITY SPIRITUALITY AND CONNECTING WITH INNER SELF PEOPLE WATCHING VIOLENCE AND FORCE CREATING SYMPATHY PETS TOO MUCH CREATES CO-DEPENDENCY – ALWAYS SEEKING NEVER ENOUGH

8. GROWTH AND CONTRIBUTION THESE ARE OUR HIGHER NEEDS – SELF ACTUALIZATION YOU MUST GENERALLY HAVE YOUR OTHER 4 NEEDS MET FIRST GROWTH IS ESSENTIAL TO LIFE GROWTH AND CONTRIBUTION BUILD HAPPINESS WHEN YOU SELFLESSLY GIVE TO OTHERS, YOU FEEL GOOD RANDOM ACTS OF KINDNESS THE MORE NEEDS FULFILLED, THE MORE ATTRACTIVE THE ACTIVITY

9. CREATING POWERFUL DRIVING QUESTION TO HELP YOU EXPAND, TO IMPROVE, TO GROW LEARNING VIRTUES – ENABLES YOU TO QUICKLY RECOVER FROM DIS-EMPOWERING BELIEFS THERE NEEDS TO BE A DESIRE TO MOVE FORWARD

10. NO ONE ELSE CAN RAISE YOUR SELF-ESTEEM BE POSITIVE GOOD ATTITUDE BE PRODUCTIVE ACHIEVING BE HONORABLE- INTEGRITY BE KIND – TREAT YOURSELF AND OTHERS WITH RESPECT SELF-ESTEEM IS THE REPUTATION YOU HAVE WITH YOURSELF !

11. CRISIS DOESN’T NECESSARILY MAKE CHARACTER, BUT IT CERTAINLY DOES REVEAL IT !

12. Law Of Attraction Each human being is a living magnet. We attract people who harmonize with our dominate thought patterns. You become what you think about. What kind of person do you become when things just don’t work out?

13. GENEROSITY Your candle loses nothing When it lights another no person was ever honored for what he received. Honor has been the reward for what he gave Giving is the highest level of living

14. CHARISMA How can you have charisma? Be more concerned About making others feel good about themselves than You are making them feel good about you.

15. TEACHABILITY To keep leading, keep learning Value your listening and reading time at Roughly ten times your talking time. This will assure You that you are on course of continuous Learning and self-improvement It’s when you learn after you know it all that counts

16. PROBLEM SOLVING You can’t let your problems be a problem You can measure a leader by the problems he tackles. He always looks for ones his own size. The measure of success is not Whether you have a tough problem to deal with, But whether it is the same problem you had last year