1. How to raise Respectful, Responsible, Resilient Kids! THE 3 R’s of PARENTING Deborah Gilboa, M.D.

2. If you could wave a magic wand... Which behavior would you change at home?

3. BEHAVIOR CHANGE Change the reaction.

4. YOU NEED A PLAN 1. Pick a behavior. 2. Decide on consequences. 3. Meet as a family. 4. Stick to it!

5. 3 R’s of PARENTING Respect That’s my kid! Responsibility Build a great work ethic. Resilience Manage difficulty.

6. RESPECT Tone of voice. Titles of respect. Eye contact Body Language Secret Code Negotiating Parental privacy 3 sentences; amazing results!

7. RESPONSIBILITY How can I help? Chores Homework Practice Community service One work ethic; 2 sentences

8. RESILIENCE  Mistakes teach resilience.  Praise the process.  Let life teach the lesson.  Choices, within limits.  Encourage some risk-taking.  Reach out for resources! “I’ll be really interested to see what you do!”

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