2. The Beverly Hillbillies: Crucial Confrontations Ephesians 4.25-32

3. 3 Key Resolutions… 1.Your conflict is with the Enemy not the person. 2.You are not always right. 3.A new life brings a renewed mind.

5. Ephesians 4.17-24 17 Now this I say and testify in the Lord, that you must no longer walk as the Gentiles do, in the futility of their minds. 18 They are darkened in their understanding, alienated from the life of God because of the ignorance that is in them, due to their hardness of heart.

6. Ephesians 4.17-24 19 They have become callous and have given themselves up to sensuality, greedy to practice every kind of impurity. 20 But that is not the way you learned Christ!— 21 assuming that you have heard about him and were taught in him, as the truth is in Jesus,

7. Ephesians 4.17-24 22 to put off your old self, which belongs to your former manner of life and is corrupt through deceitful desires, 23 and to be renewed in the spirit of your minds,

8. Ephesians 4.17-24 24 and to put on the new self, created after the likeness of God in true righteousness and holiness.

10. When we feel attacked… 1.We start justifying our position. 2.We begin to wear entitlement. 3.Our feelings start informing our emotions. 4.Our emotions start coming out of our mouth and we use hurtful words.

12. Ephesians 4.25-32 25 Husbands, love your wives, as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her, 26 that he might sanctify her, having cleansed her by the washing of water with the word,

13. Ephesians 4.25-32 27 so that he might present the church to himself in splendor, without spot or wrinkle or any such thing, that she might be holy and without blemish. 28 In the same way husbands should love their wives as their own bodies. He who loves his wife loves himself.

14. Ephesians 4.25-32 29 For no one ever hated his own flesh, but nourishes and cherishes it, just as Christ does the church, 30 because we are members of his body. 31 “Therefore a man shall leave his father and mother and hold fast to his wife, and the two shall become one flesh.”

15. Ephesians 4.25-32 32 This mystery is profound, and I am saying that it refers to Christ and the church.

17. Take-aways… 1.Identify the attack and start a conversation. (4.25) 2.Choose to reconcile. (4.26-28) 3.Swallow pride and build-up with blessing. (4.29-31) 4.Forgive as you’ve been forgiven. (4.32)