Presentation on theme: "Building Health Relationships"— Presentation transcript:
1 Building Health Relationships Chapter 2 Lesson 1 Relationships & Communication
2 You’ll learn to…Evaluate the effects of family relationships on physical, mental/emotional, and social healthEvaluate the positive & negative effects of relationships with peersDemonstrate communication skills that build & maintain healthy relationships
3 Types of Relationships Family Adam Markiewicz’s family photo 10 years after graduation… That’s Adam Jr.!
4 Functions of a healthy family Families help provide basic physical needs. Ex. food, shelter, care when ill.Families provide emotional support.Families provide structure for our lives. Ex. organize activities and schedule times. (families look out for your best interest).Lex Strube & Family20 years after graduation!
5 Family & Friends Family is the basic unit of society. Besides ensuring food, clothing, and shelter, family provides guidance to help children learn to function in society.Families teach us our values.Family portrait ofWooton & Brothers
6 ValuesValues- the beliefs & standards of conduct that are important to a personValues are also instilled through cultural heritage, religious beliefs, and family traditionsYou apply your values to the decisions that you make everyday.
7 FriendsAs we mature we meet people outside our families & we make friendsFriends who share your interests and values can be a source of positive peer pressure
8 Relationships in Adolescent Years Forming mature relationships with your peers is important for your social healthBeing involved in a variety of school, religious, and community activities can promote your mental/emotional and social growth.Reed Rathof at GCIT’s10 year Reunion
9 Relationships in Adolescent Years cont. Teacher – studentEmployer - employee
10 Peer PressureAs you develop relationships (individual/groups) you probably experience peer pressure.Peer pressure is the influence that people your age may have on youPeer pressure can be positive or negative
11 Peer pressure continued… Peer pressure is especially influential for adolescents with low self-esteem.In order to feel a sense of belonging, they may engage in high-risk behaviors or activities that go against their values.Kauffeld Cannon Booth BuchannanClass of yrs later… with matching mullets!
12 Dating Considered an important social activity Group dates offer teens opportunities to interact with a variety of people, they may feel less nervous.Steady dating is when two people date each other exclusively.
13 What are some benefits of being in a relationship?
14 CommunicationThe process through which you send messages to and receive messages from others—is essential to any relationshipGood communication skills will help you keep relationships healthy and mature
15 Good Communication Skills Means clearly expressing your feelings, thoughts, ideas, and expectations.Use “I” messages to avoid placing blame.Maintain a polite tone in your voice.Speak directly to the person.Provide a clear, organized message that states the situation.Body language should match your words.
16 Good Listening SkillsGood listening skills means listening to what others say. Guidelines for being a good listener:Give your full attention to the person speaking.Focus on the speaker’s message.Indicate your interest.Remember what the speaker had said.Use positive body language.
17 Conflict Any disagreement, struggle, or fight. Most common reasons for a conflict include a lack of communicationWhen conflicts or disagreements occur relying on T.A.L.K strategy will help reach a peaceful resolution.
18 T.A.L.KT- Take time outA- Allow each person to express his/her opinion uninterruptedL- Let each person take turns to ask questions and clarify any statementsK- Keep brainstorming to find a good solution
19 Conflict & DatingBecoming skilled at “choosing your battles,” or deciding when it is worthwhile to take, can help you avoid unnecessary conflict.Good communication is especially important in dating relationships.Express yourselves honestly and listen to what the other person is saying.
20 Healthy vs. Unhealthy Relationships Activity Divide into 4 equal groupsAssign Healthy relationships and unhealthy relationships3. Take 5 to 10 mins. To brainstorm as many characteristicsof each topic
21 Discussion How do you feel in a healthy relationship How do you feel in an unhealthy relationship?Why do some people stay in unhealthy relationships?
22 KNOW THE SIGNS: Healthy relationships have the following characteristics: Talking about your feelings Respecting date’s friends and activities Considering the other person’s opinionsand feelings Respecting differences in other persons Stating differences of opinion Having an equal say in the relationship Figuring out a solution that is good forboth of you.
23 KNOW THE SIGNS: Unhealthy relationships have the following characteristics: Believing one sex has more rights thatthe other Shouting or yelling when you are angryat your date Using the silent treatment Pestering your date until you get whatyou want Pouting to get what you want.
24 KNOW THE SIGNS: Abusive relationships have the following characteristics: Dominating and controlling your date’sother relationships/friends and activities Name calling (putdowns) Threatening harm Intimidating be hitting or destroyingproperty Being extremely jealous and possessiveof date Pushing, hitting, restraining or holdingyour date against his/her will Forcing sexual touching or intercourse.
25 Relationship Role play activity Must plan and present a role-playas outlined on the card received.Role play should provide appropriate examples of negotiating relationships.Should last 1 to 3 mins.**no inappropriate language is allowed
26 Review QuestionsEvaluate ways your parents, guardians, and other family members contribute to physical and mental/emotional health and help you establish healthy relationships.Define the term peer pressure and evaluate the positive & negative effects of relationships with peers.
27 Review Questions continued… 3. List three benefits of dating.4. Explain & demonstrate the importance of using good communication skills in building & maintaining healthy relationships. Give two examples.5. Make a list of positive ways you can develop healthy relationships with your peers. Describe specific actions you can take to become a good friend.