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4. Jesus Wept: The Bible and Human Emotions Contents 1 Emotions 2 Divine Provision for Anxiety 3 Stress 4 Relationships 5 Guilt 6 Good Thinking 7 Hope Against Depression 8 Resilience 9 Self-Esteem 10 Jealousy 11 Freedom From Addictions 12 Nature as a Source of Health 13 Partnership With Jesus

5. Jesus Wept: The Bible and Human Emotions Our Goal {3} These lessons look at human emotions and give us biblical principles on how we can understand our emotions and seek the power of the Lord to bring them under His loving sovereignty. We’ll look at Bible characters, focusing on their emotional reactions to whatever befell them, good and bad, and ask: What can we learn from their experiences that can help us with ours?

6. Jesus Wept: The Bible and Human Emotions Lesson 4, January 22 Jesus Wept: The Bible and Human Emotions Lesson 4, January 22 Relationships

7. Relationships Key Text Matthew 7:12 NIV “ ‘So in everything, do to others what you would have them do to you, for this sums up the Law and the Prophets.’ ” This principle can be considered a priceless jewel for social relationships. It is positive, it is based on love, it is universal, and it stretches above and beyond human law.

8. Relationships Initial Words {43} Whether problems with spouse, children, boss, work associate, neighbor, friend, or enemy, people tend to be the principal stressor. In contrast, when relationships are positive, they are a powerful source of satisfaction. This seems consistent across geography and culture. People make us happy, or people make us miserable.

9. Relationships Quick Look 1. Humility, Gentleness, and Goodness (Ephesians 4:1-3) 2. Forgiveness and Confession (Ephesians 4:32; James 5:16) 3. Building Others Up (Ephesians 4:29)

10. Relationships 1. Humility, Gentleness, and Goodness Ephesians 4:1-3 NKJV “I, therefore, the prisoner of the Lord, beseech you to have a walk worthy of the calling with which you were called, with all lowliness and gentleness, with longsuffering, bearing with one another in love, endeavoring to keep the unity of the Spirit in the bond of peace.”

11. 1.Humility, Gentleness, and Goodness Positive Impact {44} David sent his soldiers to Nabal with a fair request. But Nabal didn’t know about kindness or diplomacy. Even though David held the military power, his message was full of care and humility, wishing Nabal and his household long life and good health, introducing himself as “your son David”

12. 1.Humility, Gentleness, and Goodness Positive Impact {44} Abigail provided an abundant amount of choice food; she ran to appease David, bowed down before him, addressed herself as “your servant” and David as “my master,” and asked for forgiveness. She also reminded David that as a man of God, he needed to avoid needless bloodshed.

13. 1.Humility, Gentleness, and Goodness Positive Impact {46} David expressed the immorality of lifting his hand against “the Lord’s anointed.” Even though he had opportunities to take revenge, he repeatedly tried to approach and forgive the king. David chose a humble and godly manner in his dealings with someone who wasn’t kind to him. Shouldn’t we all, in whatever situation we are facing, seek to do the same?

14. Relationships 2. Forgiveness and Confession Ephesians 4:32 NKJV “And be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, just as God in Christ also forgive you.” James 5:16 NKJV “Confess your trespasses to one another, and pray for one another, that you may be healed. The effective, fervent prayer of a righteous man avails much.”

15. 2. Forgiveness and Confession Their Importance {48} It’s a fact of life that as human beings we often cross each other and cause each other pain, even—and sometimes especially—in the church. Hence, how important we learn the art of forgiveness. Forgiveness counts among the most soothing strategies, even if the ability to truly forgive and be forgiven comes only from God through a God-transformed heart.

16. Sins against my neighbor require my confession to him or her in order to secure forgiveness and to restore the relationship. It also shows that I am willing to take the responsibility for what I have done and that I trust and hope for acceptance and forgiveness. 2. Forgiveness and Confession Their Importance {48}

17. Opening up one’s own imperfection to a godly Christian friend will help alleviate the burden of sin. In addition, mutual confession deepens interpersonal relationships. Trusting and being trusted provide the bonding that will make a friendship genuine and lasting. Most important, we always can confess our trespasses to the Lord in full confidence and with the assured certainty of forgiveness. 2. Forgiveness and Confession Their Importance {48}

18. Ephesians 4:29 NKJV “Let no corrupt communication proceed out of your mouth, but what is good for necessary edification, that it may impart grace to the hearers.” Relationships 3. Building Others Up

19. Mutual Edification {52} Many interpersonal difficulties come from tearing each other down and, in the process, hurting the entire community. Members of the body of Christ need to consider themselves privileged for having received the gift of salvation.

20. With this understanding, the emphasis becomes building others up and working toward mutual edification. Words of encouragement and approval, emphasis on the positive side of things, humility, and a joyful attitude are ways of supporting those with personal problems. 3. Building Others Up Mutual Edification {52}

21. Relationships Final Words {46} People. As the song says, you meet them every day. Or you encounter the results of their actions, some positive, many not so much. Every encounter results in a relationship. Relationships are the cause of— and the solution to—all the world’s problems, but one relationship can empower you to really spread mercy, patience, peace, and love: the relationship with Jesus Christ.