1. Are you fulfilling yourself? Jan van Deventer EISLAB Monday, October 30, 2006 www.csee.ltu.se/~deventer/eislab

2. Review Change must come from inside You are in charge of yourself (by action or by default) You know who you want to be –Purpose –Values –Roles How do you get where/who you want to be?

3. Long term goals New years resolutions Use Mission, Values and Roles

4. How do you spend your time? Urgent Not urgent Important Not important Crises Pressing problems Deadline driven project Prevention, PC activities Relationship building Recognizing new opportunities Planning, recreation Interruptions, some calls Some mail,some reports Some meetings Trivia, busy work Some mail, Some phone calls Time wasters

5. How do you want to spend your time to fulfill yourself? Urgent Not urgent Important Not important Crises Pressing problems Deadline driven project Interruptions, some calls Some mail,some reports Some meetings Trivia, busy work Some mail, Some phone calls Time wasters Prevention, PC activities Relationship building Recognizing new opportunities Planning, recreation

6. Tools, 4 generations Do to lists Calendars Calendars with a vision Life managing

7. Weekly planning with daily adaptation

8. An independent person 3 lectures: –Proactive –Begin with the end in mind –First things first 3 gifts –Self awareness –Independent will –Power to act (within your circle of influence)

9. Warning! Wake up!! How do you feel when others trigger your (re)action? How do you feel when your mood defined you? Are you satisfied with life/yourself? If you are not an independent person, how effective are you within the team?

10. Future lectures Relaxation Being interdependent –Think win-win® –Seek first to understand, then to be understood® –Synergize® Sharpen the saw®