1. Being The Mentor You Would Like To Have

2. Matthew 28:18-20 Go and make disciples of all nations, baptising them in the name of the Father and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit and teaching them to obey everything I have commanded you. And surely I am with you always, to the very end of the age.

3. We are to make disciples How? Jesus’ method was a mentoring relationship = one person with greater knowledge or skills passing those on, over time, to another person Examples: rabbidisciple master craftsmanapprentice teacherstudent parentchild

4. We are to make disciples by mentoring but... I don’t want to appear superior I don’t have anything to give Mentoring sounds heavy and formal I don’t want someone telling me what to do I don’t want someone else looking into my life We simply don’t ask people about their spiritual maturity

6. What would you want in a mentor? Someone who... 1.was warm, supportive and trustworthy. 2.was committed to your growth. 3.had time – preferably regular time 4.would listen carefully 5.knows more than you and is willing to demonstrate. 6.will let you have a go but will support and reflect 7.would hold you accountable. Challenges, questions 8.doesn’t always tell you the answer and refers you to other resources. 9.will pray for you.

7. Mentor: a brain to pick, an ear to listen and a push in the right direction.

8. What would you want in a mentor? Someone who... 1.was warm, supportive and trustworthy. 2.was committed to your growth. 3.had time – preferably regular time 4.would listen carefully 5.knows more than you and is willing to demonstrate. 6.will let you have a go but will support and reflect 7.would hold you accountable. Challenges, questions 8.doesn’t always tell you the answer and refers you to other resources. 9.will pray for you.

9. Jesus’ mentoring was: 1.very relational 2.a trainer/trainee relationship. 3.very intentional. 4.focused on a small group of people. 5.involved progressive stages. Jesus provided: 6.Time. 7.Healing 8.An example to follow 9.Teaching 10.Questions 11.Equipping 12.Practical ministry/mission opportunities 13.Tests of progress 14.Prayer

10. Mark 9:14-37 14 When they came to the other disciples, they saw a large crowd around them and the teachers of the law arguing with them. 15 As soon as all the people saw Jesus, they were overwhelmed with wonder and ran to greet him. 16 "What are you arguing with them about?" he asked. 17 A man in the crowd answered, "Teacher, I brought you my son, who is possessed by a spirit that has robbed him of speech. 18 Whenever it seizes him, it throws him to the ground. He foams at the mouth, gnashes his teeth and becomes rigid. I asked your disciples to drive out the spirit, but they could not.“

11. 19 "You unbelieving generation," Jesus replied, "how long shall I stay with you? How long shall I put up with you? Bring the boy to me." 20 So they brought him. When the spirit saw Jesus, it immediately threw the boy into a convulsion. He fell to the ground and rolled around, foaming at the mouth. 21 Jesus asked the boy's father, "How long has he been like this?" "From childhood," he answered. 22 "It has often thrown him into fire or water to kill him. But if you can do anything, take pity on us and help us."

12. 23 " 'If you can'?" said Jesus. "Everything is possible for one who believes." 24 Immediately the boy's father exclaimed, "I do believe; help me overcome my unbelief!" 25 When Jesus saw that a crowd was running to the scene, he rebuked the evil spirit. "You deaf and mute spirit," he said, "I command you, come out of him and never enter him again." 26 The spirit shrieked, convulsed him violently and came out. The boy looked so much like a corpse that many said, "He's dead." 27 But Jesus took him by the hand and lifted him to his feet, and he stood up.

13. 28 After Jesus had gone indoors, his disciples asked him privately, "Why couldn't we drive it out?" 29 He replied, "This kind can come out only by prayer." 30 They left that place and passed through Galilee. Jesus did not want anyone to know where they were, 31 because he was teaching his disciples. He said to them, "The Son of Man is going to be delivered over to human hands. He will be killed, and after three days he will rise." 32 But they did not understand what he meant and were afraid to ask him about it.

14. 33 They came to Capernaum. When he was in the house, he asked them, "What were you arguing about on the road?" 34 But they kept quiet because on the way they had argued about who was the greatest. 35 Sitting down, Jesus called the Twelve and said, "Anyone who wants to be first must be the very last, and the servant of all." 36 He took a little child whom he placed among them. Taking the child in his arms, he said to them, 37 "Whoever welcomes one of these little children in my name welcomes me; and whoever welcomes me does not welcome me but the one who sent me."

15. What would you want in a mentor? Someone who... 1.was warm, supportive and trustworthy. 2.was committed to your growth. 3.had time – preferably regular time 4.would listen carefully 5.knows more than you and is willing to demonstrate. 6.will let you have a go but will support and reflect 7.would hold you accountable. Challenges, questions 8.doesn’t always tell you the answer and refers you to other resources. 9.will pray for you.

16. Obeying everything Jesus commanded