1. Malachi 2:10-16 Relational Blessings

2. God’s Reprimands Are…. In the Scriptures for a Purpose They are NOT… designed to limit or constrain designed to demean or beat down

3. God’s Reprimands Are…. Designed to… Challenge our Hearts Move us to evaluate ourselves used by the Holy Spirit in the Gift of repentance/obedience For our Blessing

4. Malachi 2:10-12 Have we not all one Father? Has not one God created us? Why then are we faithless to one another, profaning the covenant of our fathers? 11 Judah has been faithless, and abomination has been committed in Israel and in Jerusalem. For Judah has profaned the sanctuary of the Lord, which he loves, and has married the daughter of a foreign god. 12 May the Lord cut off from the tents of Jacob any descendant of the man who does this, who brings an offering to the Lord of hosts!

5. The Main Issues Both the Jews in Ethnic Judah and the Remnant in Judah (Israel)… have relational problems with one another have married non-believers

6. The Problem… Deep relationships with non-believers Malachi 2:11b For Judah has profaned the sanctuary of the Lord, which he loves, and has married the daughter of a foreign god.

7. Biblical Relationships

8. Un-Biblical Relationships

9. Biblical Relationships

10. Relational Summary A Christian can have truly intimate relationships only with other Christians A Christian should not enter into an attempted deep relationship with a non-Christian If you are in such a relationship, the goal is to facilitate the non- Christian’s relationship with God

11. Providing Biblical Balance… We should view non-believers with respect and dignity We should be kind and loving towards non-believers We should have a passion for the better good of all people We should declare the glory of God to all people

12. Providing Biblical Balance… We should love our neighbors and endeavor to serve them Matthew 19:19 Honor your father and mother, and, You shall love your neighbor as yourself.”

13. Blessing Your Neighbor… Romans 15:2 Let each of us please his neighbor for his good, to build him up.

14. A Second Reprimand…. Malachi 2:13-14 And this second thing you do. You cover the Lord’s altar with tears, with weeping and groaning because he no longer regards the offering or accepts it with favor from your hand. 14 But you say, “Why does he not?” Because the Lord was witness between you and the wife of your youth, to whom you have been faithless, though she is your companion and your wife by covenant.

15. The Main Issue Both the Ethnic Jews in Judah and the Remnant (Israel) have been faithless in marriage Adultery was rampant

16. Adultery Malachi 2:15-16 Did he not make them one, with a portion of the Spirit in their union? And what was the one God seeking? Godly offspring. So guard yourselves in your spirit, and let none of you be faithless to the wife of your youth. 16 “For the man who does not love his wife but divorces her, says the Lord, the God of Israel, covers his garment with violence, says the Lord of hosts. So guard yourselves in your spirit, and do not be faithless.”

17. The Biblical View… Remain faithful in your marriage To not be faithful is to dishonor the other and to dishonor God It is necessary to be faithful in order to serve the other

18. The Take Home Message God’s reprimands are designed to be a blessing to us The primary relationship in our lives is our relationship with God All other relationships flow from our relationship with God

21. Our Primary Pursuit… Is to seek after God… and all other relationships will fall into place