1. © Crown copyright 2006 Family SEAL: Good to be me!

2. © Crown copyright 2006 Primary and Secondary National Strategies Inclusion Key ideas All feelings are OK but not all behaviour is OK; Some feelings help learning and some feelings get in the way of learning; We need to help children to: – be aware of their feelings; – name their feelings; – set boundaries for their behaviour; – calm down. 1

3. © Crown copyright 2006 Primary and Secondary National Strategies Inclusion Be healthy Stay safe Make a contribution Enjoy and achieve Economic well-being 2

4. © Crown copyright 2006 Primary and Secondary National Strategies Inclusion 3

5. Happy and successful 4

6. How are we feeling 5

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8. © Crown copyright 2006 Primary and Secondary National Strategies Inclusion Thinking brain Feeling brain Overwhelmed by emotions 1 7

9. © Crown copyright 2006 Primary and Secondary National Strategies Inclusion 8

10. Stop, think! 9

11. 10 How can you calm down?

12. Peter and Frankie 11

13. Samantha and Naomi 12

14. Remember: Parents get lots of second chances…. 13

15. It can be tough! 14

16. © Crown copyright 2006 Primary and Secondary National Strategies Inclusion Recap on key ideas All feelings are OK but not all behaviour is OK; Some feelings help learning and some feelings get in the way of learning; We need to help children to: – be aware of their feelings; – name their feelings; – set boundaries for their behaviour; – calm down. 11

17. © Crown copyright 2006 Primary and Secondary National Strategies Inclusion Ideas to try out ask your child how he or she is feeling and help them to tell you; look at books with your child and talk about how the characters are feeling; use the relaxation or hand massage with your child; try to use the consequence they talked about in the activity. 12

18. Feelings Fridge Magnet 13