1. Relationship and Abuse

2. Review:
Describe laws regarding sexting, sex trafficking, and “yes means yes.”
Demonstrate a variety of ways to protect yourself.
Identify how to respond to inappropriate sexual behaviors.

3. What are some characteristics of a healthy relationship?

4. What does a healthy relationship have?

5. What is Consent?
Shared activities should be negotiated and agreed upon.
No person should be forced to do anything without providing consent.

6. What does “Yes Means Yes” mean?

7. “Yes Means Yes” Absence of a statement of “NO” does not mean “Yes.”
Consent given under the influence of drugs/alcohol does not qualify as a “Yes.”

8. Bullying and Harassment

9. What are some examples of bullying?

10. Bullying Examples: Name calling
Picking on others sex, race, or perceived sexual orientation
Putting others down
Spreading rumors
Posting negative messages on social media

11. Why does bullying and harassment happen?

12. Why does bullying/harassment happen?
Wanting to control another person
Personal or family history of abuse
Unable to control emotions and behavior
Peer pressure
Anger about something

13. What is Sexual Harassment/Types of Sexual Harassment?

14. What are examples of sexual harassment?
Unwelcomed, Unwanted, and Repeated….
Verbal
Physical
Visual

15. Lose Confidence
Job Performance Drops
Embarrassment
Job Loss
Isolation/Depression
Fearful
Powerless
Self- Doubt
Fear of Victimisation
Public Humiliation
Dismissal
Lawsuit
Family Breakup
Office Pervert
Loss of Friends
Jail Time
Career Stopper
Not Respected

16. What do you do to practice internet safety?

17. How can you practice internet safety?
Do not respond to unknown s or text messages.
Do not “meet” strangers online.
Do not send or receive nude photos.

18. What is Sexting?
The act of sending sexually explicit messages, semi nude or nude photos via cell phone cameras and messaging features, usually between young people.

19. Sexting
22% of teen girls, 18% of teen boys and 11% of young teen girls (13-16) have sent nude photos of themselves electronically
Over a third of teen boys and 40% of young men have reported receiving or seeing ‘private’ photos.
*What might be some consequences of sexting?

20. Sexting: Legal Aspects
Under federal law, persons convicted of child porn or exploitation may face:
Minimum 5 years in prison up to maximum 20 years.
Sending sexually explicit images of minors on cell phones is punishable by California law:
Up to 3 years and $2500 fine
3 year statute of limitations
Felony: creating and distributing pornography.
Lifetime duty to register as sex offender
- Background checks
- Jobs

21. Sexting – Psycho-Social Effects

22. Before you send it… What you should ask yourself?
Are you willing to take the chance that someone other than your intended recipient will see your image?
Will those images be a source of embarrassment or humiliation to you?
Are you willing to take the chance that the images may be a “career killer” or prevent you from some future opportunities?
Will the images/videos that you send violate the law?

23. What is Sex Trafficking?

24. What is Sex Trafficking?
Federal Law defines child sex trafficking as the recruitment, harboring, transport, provision or obtaining of a person under the age of 18 for the purpose of a commercial sex act.
It is a major crime punished by a jail sentence (5-8 years...8 if it is a minor)
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Signs of Trafficking:
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25. Reporting Sexual Assault
To report rape or assault:
Tell your school counselor, school nurse, or social worker
Contact your local police or sheriff
For additional support, contact:
National Sexual Assault Hotline:
1(800) 656- HOPE (4673)
Go to online.rainn.org

26. Lesson Wrap Up Ask Yourself
T/F If you are being bullied you should do nothing.
T/F Non-verbal communication includes hand signals, facial
expressions, and walking away.
T/F Calling someone a fag is a form of sexual harassment.
Ask a Friend/Table group
Discuss answers from above
Discuss and tell the most important thing they learned in this lesson
Ask a Parent or Trusted Adult
Discuss how you should handle bullying or inappropriate sexual advances.