1. Sex and Family Planning

2. ______ is good, but it is not God.

3. The Purpose of Sex
Unity

4. Genesis 2:18-25
The LORD God said, "It is not good for the man to be alone. I will make a helper suitable for him." Now the LORD God had formed out of the ground all the beasts of the field and all the birds of the air. He brought them to the man to see what he would name them; and whatever the man called each living creature, that was its name. So the man gave names to all the livestock, the birds of the air and all the beasts of the field.

5. Genesis 2:18-25
But for the man no suitable helper was found. So the LORD God caused the man to fall into a deep sleep; and while he was sleeping, he took one of the man's ribs and closed up the place with flesh. Then the LORD God made a woman from the rib he had taken out of the man, and he brought her to the man.

6. Genesis 2:18-25
The man said, "This is now bone of my bones and flesh of my flesh; she shall be called 'woman, ' for she was taken out of man." For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and they will become one flesh. The man and his wife were both naked, and they felt no shame.

7. 1 Corinthians 6:16
Do you not know that he who unites himself with a prostitute is one with her in body? For it is said, "The two will become one flesh."

8. The Purpose of Sex
Unity
Children

9. Genesis 1:27-28
So God created man in his own image, in the image of God he created him; male and female he created them. God blessed them and said to them, "Be fruitful and increase in number; fill the earth and subdue it.”

10. The Purpose of Sex
Unity
Children
Storytelling

11. Ephesians 5:25, 28-32
Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her…husbands ought to love their wives as their own bodies. He who loves his wife loves himself. After all, no one ever hated his own body, but he feeds and cares for it, just as Christ does the church— for we are members of his body. "For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and the two will become one flesh." This is a profound mystery—but I am talking about Christ and the church.

12. The Purpose of Sex
Unity
Children
Storytelling

13. The Bible’s Description of Good Sex
Free

14. 1 Corinthians 7:3-4
The husband should fulfill his wife's sexual needs, and the wife should fulfill her husband's needs. The wife's body does not belong to her alone but also to her husband. In the same way, the husband's body does not belong to him alone but also to his wife.

15. I am my lover's and my lover is mine.
Song of Songs 6:3
I am my lover's and my lover is mine.

16. The Bible’s Description of Good Sex
Free
Frequent

17. 1Corinthians 7:5
Do not deprive one another, except perhaps by agreement for a limited time, that you may devote yourselves to prayer; but then come together again, so that Satan may not tempt you because of your lack of self-control.

18. The Bible’s Description of Good Sex
Free
Frequent
Fun

19. Proverbs 5:18-19
Rejoice in the wife of your youth, a lovely deer, a graceful doe. Let her breasts fill you at all times with delight; be intoxicated always in her love.

20. Song of Songs 1:2, 4
Let him kiss me with the kisses of his mouth—for your love is more delightful than wine…Take me away with you—let us hurry! Let the king bring me into his chambers.

21. Song of Songs 2:9
You have stolen my heart, my sister, my bride; you have stolen my heart with one glance of your eyes, with one jewel of your necklace.

22. Song of Songs 1:3
Pleasing is the fragrance of your perfumes; your name is like perfume poured out. No wonder the maidens love you!

23. Song of Songs 2:10
How delightful is your love, my sister, my bride! How much more pleasing is your love than wine, and the fragrance of your perfume than any spice!

24. Song of Songs 2:9-11
Your lips drop sweetness as the honeycomb, my bride; milk and honey are under your tongue.

25. Song of Songs 4:12-13, 15-16, 5:1
[Groom:] You are a garden locked up, my sister, my bride; you are a spring enclosed, a sealed fountain. Your plants are an orchard of pomegranates with choice fruits…You are a garden fountain, a well of flowing water streaming down from Lebanon…

26. Song of Songs 4:12-13, 15-16, 5:1
[Bride] Let my lover come into his garden and taste its choice fruits... [Groom:] I have come into my garden, my sister, my bride; I have gathered my myrrh with my spice. I have eaten my honeycomb and my honey; I have drunk my wine and my milk.

27. Song of Songs 7:6-13
[Groom:] How beautiful you are and how pleasing, O love, with your delights! Your stature is like that of the palm, and your breasts like clusters of fruit. I said, "I will climb the palm tree; I will take hold of its fruit." May your breasts be like the clusters of the vine, the fragrance of your breath like apples, and your mouth like the best wine. May the wine go straight to my lover, flowing gently over lips and teeth.

28. Song of Songs 7:6-13
[Bride:] I belong to my lover, and his desire is for me. Come, my lover, let us go to the countryside, let us spend the night in the villages. Let us go early to the vineyards to see if the vines have budded, if their blossoms have opened, and if the pomegranates are in bloom—there I will give you my love…at our door is every delicacy, both new and old, that I have stored up for you, my lover.

29. Does it reflect Christ-like love?
What can we try?
Does it promote unity?
Does it reflect Christ-like love?

30. It is more important that you learn to love your spouse than pleasure your spouse.

31. The Bible’s Description of Good Sex
Free
Frequent
Fun
Faithful

32. Proverbs 5:15-20
Drink water from your own cistern, running water from your own well. Should your springs overflow in the streets, your streams of water in the public squares? Let them be yours alone, never to be shared with strangers. May your fountain be blessed, and may you rejoice in the wife of your youth. A loving doe, a graceful deer-- may her breasts satisfy you always, may you ever be captivated by her love. Why be captivated, my son, by an adulteress? Why embrace the bosom of another man's wife?

33. Everyone is sexually broken.

34. Practical Tips

35. Family Planning and Birth Control
What are the borders? (What will put a baby’s life at risk?)
What is best? (What will enable your family to fulfill God’s calling on your lives?)

36. Questions?