2. “The elder, To my dear friend Gaius, whom I love in the truth
“The elder, To my dear friend Gaius, whom I love in the truth. Dear friend, I pray that you may enjoy good health and that all may go well with you, even as your soul is getting along well. It gave me great joy when some believers came and testified about your faithfulness to the truth, telling how you continue to walk in it. I have no greater joy than to hear that my children are walking in the truth. Dear friend, you are faithful in what you are doing for the brothers and sisters, even though they are strangers to you. They have told the church about your love. Please send them on their way in a manner that honors God.”

3. “It was for the sake of the Name that they went out, receiving no help from the pagans. We ought therefore to show hospitality to such people so that we may work together for the truth. I wrote to the church, but Diotrephes, who loves to be first, will not welcome us. So when I come, I will call attention to what he is doing, spreading malicious nonsense about us. Not satisfied with that, he even refuses to welcome other believers. He also stops those who want to do so and puts them out of the church. Dear friend, do not imitate what is evil but what is good. Anyone who does what is good is from God. Anyone who does what is evil has not seen God.”

4. “Demetrius is well spoken of by everyone—and even by the truth itself
“Demetrius is well spoken of by everyone—and even by the truth itself. We also speak well of him, and you know that our testimony is true. I have much to write you, but I do not want to do so with pen and ink. I hope to see you soon, and we will talk face to face. Peace to you. The friends here send their greetings. Greet the friends there by name.”

5. Imitation is the sincerest form of flattery.
WHO DO YOU ?

6. A Tale of Three Christians
Gaius
Held in high esteem for his theological orthodoxy.
Commended for his hospitality
Noted for his love
A man who walked in the truth, he was also a man who walked in love. Gaius is, in many ways, an embodiment of John’s instruction.
3 John:
A Tale of Three Christians

7. A Tale of Three Christians
Diotrephes
arrogant and self-serving.
failed to recognize John’s apostolic authority or to show hospitality to the traveling missionaries
Spoke ill of John and hindered others who wished to help the missionaries, expelling from the church those who did.
developed for himself an impenetrable ministry silo.
3 John:
A Tale of Three Christians

8. A Tale of Three Christians
Demetrius
commended for his good character.
Was likely a more mature follower of Jesus and one of the travelling missionaries shortly to arrive in Gaius’ community.
was one who walked in the truth and was likely a key individual in combatting false teaching.
3 John:
A Tale of Three Christians

10. Are we focussed on that which is good?
While we might be quick to admit that what we focus on is “not bad”, can we honestly say that it is “true, noble, right, pure, lovely, admirable, excellent or praiseworthy”?

11. Do I have someone in my life who is a faithful, loving truthful follower of Jesus who I can imitate in my walk with Jesus?
Can I be a better example of what it means to follow Jesus to those who might be looking to me as an example, someone to imitate?

13. Understand that truth and love will always exist in delicate balance within the church. If we lean too much toward truth, to the exclusion of love, harshness is bred. If we are quick to display love, but neglect the truth, this produces compromise. .

14. What would I be willing to change to be a better part of a loving community based on truth?
Might our love be based on the truth we share and might our truth be bathed in the love we show to one another.