1. An Overseer Must Be…
1 Timothy 3:3

2. 1 Timothy 3:1-3
The saying is trustworthy: If anyone aspires to the office of overseer, he desires a noble task.
Therefore an overseer must be above reproach, the husband of one wife, sober-minded, self-controlled, respectable, hospitable, able to teach,not a drunkard, not violent but gentle, not quarrelsome, not a lover of money.

3. 1 Timothy 3:4-7
He must manage his own household well, with all dignity keeping his children submissive, for if someone does not know how to manage his own household, how will he care for God's church? He must not be a recent convert, or he may become puffed up with conceit and fall into the condemnation of the devil. Moreover, he must be well thought of by outsiders, so that he may not fall into disgrace, into a snare of the devil.

4. 1 Timothy 3:4-5
He must manage his own household well, with all dignity keeping his children submissive, for if someone does not know how to manage his own household, how will he care for God's church? He must not be a recent convert, or he may become puffed up with conceit and fall into the condemnation of the devil. Moreover, he must be well thought of by outsiders, so that he may not fall into disgrace, into a snare of the devil.

5. Observations

6. Observations
He must manage
“rule”

7. Observations He must manage “rule”
contrasted: “well” (4) versus “not know how” (5)

8. Observations He must manage keeping his children submissive “rule”
contrasted: “well” (4) versus “not know how” (5)
keeping his children submissive
why are his children the ‘key’?

9. Clarifying ‘submissive’

10. Clarifying ‘submissive’
“He must manage his own household well, with all dignity keeping his children submissive”

11. Clarifying ‘submissive’
“He must manage his own household well, with all dignity keeping his children submissive”
His character encourages or discourages their submission
(cf Ephesians 6:4, Colossians 3:21: children provoked to anger and discouragement)

12. the Home and the Church
He must manage his own household well, with all dignity keeping his children submissive, for if someone does not know how to manage his own household, how will he care for God's church?

13. the Home and the Church
He must manage his own household well, with all dignity keeping his children submissive, for if someone … does not know how to manage his own household, … how will he care for God's church?
cf Hebrews 13:17

14. a good father and church elder
2 common qualities:
Care (active concern)
Dignity (from his righteousness)

15. a good father and church elder
2 common qualities:
Care (active concern)
Dignity (from his righteousness)
(I write these things to you so that …)
you may know how one ought to behave in the household of God, which is the church of the living God, a pillar and buttress of the truth 3:15