1. If you have a Problem with a game…
Peace Pal?
If you have a Problem with a game…

2. 2 pupils in Year 2, 3, 4, 5 and 6. Come and take a seat
Who are our Peace Pals?
2 pupils in Year 2, 3, 4, 5 and 6.
Come and take a seat

3. See people’s Points of View
Some Important Words
Peace Pals need to…
Listen
See people’s Points of View
Build Relationships
Resolve Conflict
Help Find Solutions

4. Stop and Think Who enjoys playing games in the playground?
What games do you play?
Who do you like to play them with?

5. Chess, Draughts, Connect 4 Ball Wall and Play Leader Games
Some Common Games…
Football
Cricket
Other ball games
Chasing/ ‘tig’ games
Chess, Draughts, Connect 4
Skipping games
Hula-Hoop games
Imaginary Games
Ball Wall and Play Leader Games

6. When Things Go Wrong… What sort of things can go wrong in a game?
Watch the Drama and answer…
What went wrong?
Who was involved?
What can we do to help?
How do we know we have helped?

7. Other things that can go wrong…
Not taking turns
Arguing over equipment
Not Sharing the Space
Cheating or not following the rules
Shouting at each other
Someone being too bossy
Someone loosing their temper
Calling names
Pushing, shoving or tripping
Excluding someone from a game
Wasting time

8. How can I get help to solve a problem?
STOP the Game.
FIND a Peace Pal.
SAY ‘We have a problem with our game, can you help us please.’
FIND a quiet spot away from the game and other pupils.

9. What Should Peace Pals do?
Stand in a Triangle, facing each other.
Use names. Say “Yes …. and …. How can I help?”
Listen to one point of view – no interruptions, no questions.
Listen to the other point of view – no interruptions, no questions.
Ask “What do you want to happen?”
Think of a solution. Has a rule been broken that needs to be agreed? Does there need to be an apology? Does everyone need to count to 10? Do you need to ‘Agree to Disagree’.
Thank those who have asked for help.
Share the problem with another Peace Pal – can they suggest anything different?

10. Peace Pals Help Find Solutions…
Not taking turns - agree what exactly what order players go in
Arguing over equipment – agree to take it in turns, 5 minutes each
Not Sharing the Space – look at the space, have half each.
Cheating or not following the rules – say the rules together and agree
Shouting at each other – Stop, count to 10, apologise, try again
Someone being too bossy – explain to them why they are being bossy and ask them to stop.
Someone loosing their temper – take 2 minutes time out, go for a walk round the playground, apologise and explain why you got angry
Calling names – ask why you called the name and was it necessary, apologise and promise to try not to do it again
Pushing, shoving or tripping – put your hands being your back, step back, take 2 minutes out, apologies and explain your actions
Excluding someone from a game – think how you would feel, invite them to join in your game
Wasting time–chose to join in + follow the rules or find another game

11. We Need Peace Pals that are…
Carers
Helpful
Listeners
Communicators
Fair
Trustworthy
Respectful and who are Respected
Positive