1. SUCCESSFUL IN-LAW RELATIONSHIPS

2. Develop a relationship with your in-laws
Establish parent/child relationship with new parents
Do not interpret interest as interference
If They give advice….
Look for the positive
Treat them with respect and courtesy
If conflict is unavoidable, KEEP VISITIS SHORT
Give them time to adjust

3. Grow into a new relationship with your own parents
Withdraw closeness (not love)
Make your spouse your first priority

4. Build your relationship with your mate
Do not discuss mate’s faults with friends and family
Continually build your marriage
Do not hold your own family up as a model