1. Genesis 2:18; 3:16; Colossians 1:19; 2:9-10

2. Woman at the well (John 4) A woman’s perpetual hunger which she tries to fill by giving A man’s perpetual hunger which he tries to fill by taking

3. Gen 2 18 The L ORD God said, “It is not good for the man to be alone. I will make a helper suitable for him.” Ezer (help) NEVER used in the sense of subordinate 16/21 times refers to God

4. Psa 121 1 I lift up my eyes to the mountains— where does my help come from? 2 My help comes from the L ORD, the Maker of heaven and earth.

5. 1 Sam 7 12 Then Samuel took a stone and set it up between Mizpah and Shen. He named it Ebenezer, saying, “Thus far the Lord has helped us.”

6. John 14 16 And I will ask the Father, and he will give you another advocate to help you and be with you forever—

7. Kenegdo (suitable) Complementary – Not gender war

8. Gen 3 16 To the woman he said, “I will make your pains in childbearing very severe; with painful labor you will give birth to children. Your desire will be for your husband, and he will rule over you.”

9. Meaning #1. Adversarial. Your desire will be to lord it over your husband … but he will rule over you Meaning #2. Dependency. Your desire will be to find your fulfillment in your husband…and he will rule over you

10. Dominance or Dependency Softness not weakness

11. #1 Find your tears #2 Find your forgiveness #3 Find your Father’s love

12. #4 Find your Father’s love in Jesus

13. Col 1 19 For it pleased the Father that in him should all fulness dwell; (KJV)

14. Col 2 9 For in Christ all the fullness of the Deity lives in bodily form, 10 and in Christ you have been brought to fullness. (NIV)

15. #5 Find your deliverance from bondage

16. Luke 4 18 “The Spirit of the Lord is on me, because he has anointed me to proclaim good news to the poor. He has sent me to proclaim freedom for the prisoners and recovery of sight for the blind, to set the oppressed free, 19 to proclaim the year of the Lord’s favor.”

17. #6 Your true fulfillment is to experience the love of Jesus True devotion  true spirituality

18. Eph 3 14 For this reason I kneel before the Father, … 16 I pray that out of his glorious riches he may strengthen you with power through his Spirit in your inner being, 17 so that Christ may dwell in your hearts through faith. And I pray that you, being rooted and established in love, 18 may have power, together with all the Lord’s holy people, to grasp how wide and long and high and deep is the love of Christ, 19 and to know this love that surpasses knowledge—that you may be filled to the measure of all the fullness of God.

19. Undo the curse of Gen 3:16 and recover Gen 2:18 Life | Death | Resurrection

20. Now my debt is paid It is paid in full By the precious blood That my Jesus spilled Now the curse of sin Has no hold on me Whom the Son sets free Oh is free indeed