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4. In this lesson we will be looking at what makes us angry, and how we can control our temper.

5. Mitali loses his cool … then learns to control his anger!

6. Where have all my clothes gone? I washed them and put them away in your cupboard I wish you would leave my things alone!! If that’s what you want Mitali!

7. Who’s made this mess in my room!! Two days later …

8. You’re in my way, Digby! Move it!! I said ‘Move it!’ Later, on the school playground …

9. Why? Has he lost his cool again? I should keep away from Mitali!

10. Anna, I thought you knew how to play! Now we’re going to lose because of you! Mitali, I warned you that if you lost your temper you’d be sent off! So off you go!

11. Mitali was grumpy. When his friends heard him swearing they decided to start off home without him. That made him even more angry. He kicked stones all the way to his house. A

12. Mitali, it’s homework time! No way! I’m going out to play! Mitali, come back here AT ONCE!

13. It’s not fair! Nan’s made me go to bed early!! Grrr! What a TERRIBLE DAY!!

15. Where have all my clothes gone? I washed them and put them away in your cupboard. Thanks Nan. That’s very kind of you. It’s a pleasure to help, Mitali! I must stop blaming other people when I get frustrated! REPLAY

16. You’re in my way, Digby! Move it!! Later, on the school playground … I must remember to be patient with other people! Sorry, I didn’t mean that Digby. You have as much right to be there as I have.

17. Really? You mean he didn’t lose his temper? I had a great time playing with Mitali! Yeah! That makes a nice change!

18. Anna, I thought you knew how to play! That was a great game. Well played Mitali! You were a real star to-day! Count to 10 Mitali! No need to be unkind! Sorry Anna. I didn’t mean it! Yeah!!

19. When Mitali got to the school gate he found all his friends waiting for him. They chatted together all the way home.

20. Mitali, it’s homework time! No way! I’m going out to play! Good boy Mitali. Oops! I forgot… old habits die hard! …. I mean I’ll go out to play AFTER I’ve done my homework.

21. I Will. Goodnight Nan! You sleep well too! Sleep well Mitali! I’ve had a BRILLIAN T day! Thanks for being so helpful today Mitali!

22. Glossary Angry – cross, furious Temper – bad mood, rage Attacked – disagreed with, hit Insulted – offended, hurt Deceived – tricked, cheated Frustrated – blocked, discouraged

23. The Learning Activities Document completes this lesson : Deep breathing Muscle relaxation Washing away our anger Dealing with our emotions