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3. Copyright © by Holt, Rinehart and Winston. All rights reserved. ResourcesChapter menu Quotes About Character “What you do speaks so loud that I cannot hear what you say.” —Ralph Waldo Emerson

4. Copyright © by Holt, Rinehart and Winston. All rights reserved. ResourcesChapter menu Marriage, Parenthood, and Families Chapter 17

5. Copyright © by Holt, Rinehart and Winston. All rights reserved. ResourcesChapter menu Contents Section 1 Marriage Section 2 Parenthood Section 3 Families Chapter 17 Marriage, Parenthood, and Families

6. Copyright © by Holt, Rinehart and Winston. All rights reserved. ResourcesChapter menu Section 1 Marriage Bellringer List the responsibilities a married teenager would have that an unmarried teenager would not have. Chapter 17

7. Copyright © by Holt, Rinehart and Winston. All rights reserved. ResourcesChapter menu Section 1 Marriage Objectives Describe the responsibilities of married partners. List five things couples should discuss if they are considering marriage. Name three difficulties that teenagers who are married may face. Identify four ways in which a teen can cope with a divorce or remarriage in the family. Chapter 17

8. Copyright © by Holt, Rinehart and Winston. All rights reserved. ResourcesChapter menu Section 1 Marriage Healthy Marriages: Working Together A marriage is a lifelong union between a husband and a wife, who develop an intimate relationship. A healthy marriage requires that both partners work together to meet each others’ needs. Chapter 17

9. Copyright © by Holt, Rinehart and Winston. All rights reserved. ResourcesChapter menu Section 1 Marriage Healthy Marriages: Working Together A healthy marriage also requires: Chapter 17 Love Commitment Compromise Emotional intimacy

10. Copyright © by Holt, Rinehart and Winston. All rights reserved. ResourcesChapter menu Section 1 Marriage Engagement: Developing Your Relationships Emotional maturity is the ability to assess a relationship or situation and to act according to what is best. This is important in the engagement period. Chapter 17

11. Copyright © by Holt, Rinehart and Winston. All rights reserved. ResourcesChapter menu Section 1 Marriage Engagement: Developing Your Relationships During the engagement, couples should discuss: Chapter 17 What are our values and beliefs? Should we have children? How will we handle conflict in the family? Should we both work outside the home? Where should we live? What are our economic expectations?

12. Copyright © by Holt, Rinehart and Winston. All rights reserved. ResourcesChapter menu Section 1 Marriage Teen Marriages The stresses of teen marriage include: Chapter 17 independence from parents and family financial worries changes in relationships with close friends possibly delaying education interaction with in-laws concern for a spouse’s emotional and physical well-being possible parenthood

13. Copyright © by Holt, Rinehart and Winston. All rights reserved. ResourcesChapter menu Section 1 Marriage Divorce and Remarriage A divorce is a legal end to a marriage. Reasons for divorce include: Chapter 17 abuse or addiction emotional immaturity unfaithfulness communication problems unfulfilled expectations different financial habits and goals

14. Copyright © by Holt, Rinehart and Winston. All rights reserved. ResourcesChapter menu Section 1 Marriage Divorce and Remarriage When parents get divorced or remarry, teens often face difficult changes and emotions. When coping with divorce or remarriage, keep in mind: Chapter 17 Your parents are doing their best to deal with a difficult time. Don’t take anger out on others. Deal with your feelings constructively. Don’t blame yourself.

15. Copyright © by Holt, Rinehart and Winston. All rights reserved. ResourcesChapter menu Section 2 Parenthood Bellringer List some of the responsibilities of being a parent. Chapter 17

16. Copyright © by Holt, Rinehart and Winston. All rights reserved. ResourcesChapter menu Section 2 Parenthood Objectives Name three responsibilities of parenthood. Identify how a parent’s behavior can affect his or her children. Describe three traits you would like to develop before becoming a parent. Chapter 17

17. Copyright © by Holt, Rinehart and Winston. All rights reserved. ResourcesChapter menu Section 2 Parenthood Responsibilities of Parents During pregnancy, mothers and fathers must avoid drinking, smoking, and taking drugs. These can have serious effects on a developing baby. Parents must spend lots of time with their children and make sure their emotional needs are met. Parents must make sure their children are safe. Chapter 17

18. Copyright © by Holt, Rinehart and Winston. All rights reserved. ResourcesChapter menu Section 2 Parenthood Responsibilities of Parents Parents must have or earn enough money to make sure their children’s basic needs are met. Discipline is the act of teaching a child through correction, direction, rules, and reinforcement. Proper discipline is important for a child’s maturation. As children become teens, parents must adapt to the changes, be supportive, and allow the relationship to grow. Chapter 17

19. Copyright © by Holt, Rinehart and Winston. All rights reserved. ResourcesChapter menu Section 2 Parenthood Effects of Parental Behavior Children are highly attentive to their parents’ behaviors. The way parents behave shapes the way a child feels about himself or herself and shapes the way he or she interacts with the world. Chapter 17

20. Copyright © by Holt, Rinehart and Winston. All rights reserved. ResourcesChapter menu Section 2 Parenthood Effects of Parental Behavior Parental behaviors that build self-esteem include: Chapter 17 giving children time, attention, and physical intimacy establishing clear rules and limits listening and communicating with children praising positive behaviors and good choices

21. Copyright © by Holt, Rinehart and Winston. All rights reserved. ResourcesChapter menu Section 3 Families Bellringer List the relationships in each of ten families you know (for example, mother, stepfather, grandmother, brother, and so on). Chapter 17

22. Copyright © by Holt, Rinehart and Winston. All rights reserved. ResourcesChapter menu Section 3 Families Objectives Discuss why family relationships are important. Describe different types of families. Name the characteristics of healthy families. State four ways to cope with family problems. List three ways that you could help make your family healthier. Chapter 17

23. Copyright © by Holt, Rinehart and Winston. All rights reserved. ResourcesChapter menu Section 3 Families Family Relationships Are Important Family relationships influence our emotions and help shape our character, positively or negatively. Family relationships teach us how to love and be loved. Because families are important, it makes sense to invest time and energy in your family relationships. Chapter 17

24. Copyright © by Holt, Rinehart and Winston. All rights reserved. ResourcesChapter menu Section 3 Families Types of Families A nuclear family is a mother, a father, and one or more biological or adopted children living together. A blended family is the biological mother or father, a step-parent, and the children of one or both parents. continued on next slide Chapter 17

25. Copyright © by Holt, Rinehart and Winston. All rights reserved. ResourcesChapter menu Section 3 Families Types of Families A single-parent family is a single father or single mother and his or her children. Extended families are the people outside the nuclear family but related to it. A foster family is a person or couple not related to the children that cares for the children temporarily. Chapter 17

26. Copyright © by Holt, Rinehart and Winston. All rights reserved. ResourcesChapter menu Section 3 Families Characteristics of Healthy Families Effective communication Respect Commitment Love Chapter 17

27. Copyright © by Holt, Rinehart and Winston. All rights reserved. ResourcesChapter menu Section 3 Families Coping with Family Problems All families have problems sometimes. These problems can arise from stresses inside or outside the family. More serious family problems may involve abuse. Chapter 17

28. Copyright © by Holt, Rinehart and Winston. All rights reserved. ResourcesChapter menu Section 3 Families Coping with Family Problems Sometimes seeking support outside the immediate family can help you cope with family problems. Family counseling involves counseling discussions that are led by a third party to resolve family problems. Chapter 17

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34. Copyright © by Holt, Rinehart and Winston. All rights reserved. ResourcesChapter menu Quotes About Character “If you stand straight, do not fear a crooked shadow.” —Chinese Proverb

35. Copyright © by Holt, Rinehart and Winston. All rights reserved. ResourcesChapter menu Quotes About Character “One falsehood spoils a thousand truths.” —African Proverb

36. Copyright © by Holt, Rinehart and Winston. All rights reserved. ResourcesChapter menu Quotes About Character “A man cannot be comfortable without his own approval.” —Mark Twain

37. Copyright © by Holt, Rinehart and Winston. All rights reserved. ResourcesChapter menu Quotes About Character “Our reverence is good for nothing if it does not begin with self-respect.” —Oliver Wendell Holmes

38. Copyright © by Holt, Rinehart and Winston. All rights reserved. ResourcesChapter menu Quotes About Character “When the character of a man is not clear to you, look at his friends.” —Japanese Proverb

39. Copyright © by Holt, Rinehart and Winston. All rights reserved. ResourcesChapter menu Quotes About Character “What lies behind us and what lies before us are small matters compared to what lies within us.” —Ralph Waldo Emerson

40. Copyright © by Holt, Rinehart and Winston. All rights reserved. ResourcesChapter menu Quotes About Character “A good name, like good will, is got by many actions and lost by one.” —Lord Jeffrey

41. Copyright © by Holt, Rinehart and Winston. All rights reserved. ResourcesChapter menu Quotes About Character “To enjoy the things we ought and to hate the things we ought has the greatest bearing on excellence of character.” —Aristotle

42. Copyright © by Holt, Rinehart and Winston. All rights reserved. ResourcesChapter menu Quotes About Character “He that respects himself is safe from others; He wears a coat of mail that none can pierce.” —Henry Wadsworth Longfellow

43. Copyright © by Holt, Rinehart and Winston. All rights reserved. ResourcesChapter menu Quotes About Character “The reputation of a thousand years may be determined by the conduct of one hour.” —Japanese Proverb

44. Copyright © by Holt, Rinehart and Winston. All rights reserved. ResourcesChapter menu Quotes About Character “Dreams are the touchstones of our character.” —Henry David Thoreau

45. Copyright © by Holt, Rinehart and Winston. All rights reserved. ResourcesChapter menu Quotes About Character “A man’s character is his fate.” —Heraclitus

46. Copyright © by Holt, Rinehart and Winston. All rights reserved. ResourcesChapter menu Quotes About Character “Character is that which reveals moral purpose, exposing the class of things a man chooses and avoids.” —Aristotle

47. Copyright © by Holt, Rinehart and Winston. All rights reserved. ResourcesChapter menu Quotes About Character “What you do speaks so loud that I cannot hear what you say.” —Ralph Waldo Emerson

48. Copyright © by Holt, Rinehart and Winston. All rights reserved. ResourcesChapter menu Quotes About Character “Abstinence is the surety of temperance.” —Plato

49. Copyright © by Holt, Rinehart and Winston. All rights reserved. ResourcesChapter menu Quotes About Character “This above all, to thine own self be true/And it must follow, as the night the day/ Thou canst not then be false to any man.” —William Shakespeare

50. Copyright © by Holt, Rinehart and Winston. All rights reserved. ResourcesChapter menu Quotes About Character “No change of circumstances can repair a defect of character.” —Ralph Waldo Emerson

51. Copyright © by Holt, Rinehart and Winston. All rights reserved. ResourcesChapter menu Quotes About Character “Men acquire a particular quality by constantly acting a particular way... you become just by performing just actions, temperate by performing temperate actions, brave by performing brave actions.” —Aristotle

52. Copyright © by Holt, Rinehart and Winston. All rights reserved. ResourcesChapter menu Quotes About Character “The way to gain a good reputation is to endeavor to be what you desire to appear.” —Socrates

53. Copyright © by Holt, Rinehart and Winston. All rights reserved. ResourcesChapter menu Quotes About Character “Do what you know and perception is converted into character.” —Ralph Waldo Emerson

54. Copyright © by Holt, Rinehart and Winston. All rights reserved. ResourcesChapter menu Quotes About Character “Rather fail with honor than succeed by fraud.” —Sophocles

55. Copyright © by Holt, Rinehart and Winston. All rights reserved. ResourcesChapter menu Quotes About Character “Character is higher than intellect.” —Ralph Waldo Emerson

56. Copyright © by Holt, Rinehart and Winston. All rights reserved. ResourcesChapter menu Quotes About Character “To know what is right and not do it is the worst cowardice.” —Confucius

57. Copyright © by Holt, Rinehart and Winston. All rights reserved. ResourcesChapter menu Quotes About Character “It takes less time to do a thing right, than it does to explain why you did it wrong.” —Henry Wadsworth Longfellow

58. Copyright © by Holt, Rinehart and Winston. All rights reserved. ResourcesChapter menu Quotes About Character “Nature magically suits a man to his fortunes, by making them the fruit of his character.” —Ralph Waldo Emerson

59. Copyright © by Holt, Rinehart and Winston. All rights reserved. ResourcesChapter menu Quotes About Character “That soul that can be honest is the only perfect man.” —John Fletcher

60. Copyright © by Holt, Rinehart and Winston. All rights reserved. ResourcesChapter menu Quotes About Character “One does evil enough when one does nothing good.” —German Proverb

61. Copyright © by Holt, Rinehart and Winston. All rights reserved. ResourcesChapter menu Quotes About Character “There is no pillow so soft as a clear conscience.” —French Proverb

62. Copyright © by Holt, Rinehart and Winston. All rights reserved. ResourcesChapter menu Quotes About Character “Don't forget to love yourself.” —Soren Kierkegaard

63. Copyright © by Holt, Rinehart and Winston. All rights reserved. ResourcesChapter menu Quotes About Character “Character is the indelible mark that determines the only true value of all people and all their work.” —Orison Swett Marden

64. Copyright © by Holt, Rinehart and Winston. All rights reserved. ResourcesChapter menu Quotes About Character “What we think or what we believe is, in the end, of little consequence. The only thing of consequence is what we do.” —John Ruskin

65. Copyright © by Holt, Rinehart and Winston. All rights reserved. ResourcesChapter menu Quotes About Character “Fame is vapor, popularity an accident, riches take wing, and only character endures.” —Horace Greeley

66. Copyright © by Holt, Rinehart and Winston. All rights reserved. ResourcesChapter menu Quotes About Character “You can easily judge the character of a man by how he treats those who can do nothing for him.” —James D. Miles

67. Copyright © by Holt, Rinehart and Winston. All rights reserved. ResourcesChapter menu Quotes About Character “Right is right, even if everyone is against it; and wrong is wrong, even if everyone is for it.” —William Penn

68. Copyright © by Holt, Rinehart and Winston. All rights reserved. ResourcesChapter menu Quotes About Character “Our deeds determine us, as much as we determine our deeds.” —George Eliot

69. Copyright © by Holt, Rinehart and Winston. All rights reserved. ResourcesChapter menu Quotes About Character “Character is the result of two things: mental attitude and the way we spend our time.” —Elbert Hubbard

70. Copyright © by Holt, Rinehart and Winston. All rights reserved. ResourcesChapter menu Quotes About Character “A man without character is like a ship without a rudder.” —Karl G. Maeser

71. Copyright © by Holt, Rinehart and Winston. All rights reserved. ResourcesChapter menu Quotes About Character “Character is much easier kept than recovered.” —Thomas Paine

72. Copyright © by Holt, Rinehart and Winston. All rights reserved. ResourcesChapter menu Quotes About Character “Character is power.” —Booker T. Washington

73. Copyright © by Holt, Rinehart and Winston. All rights reserved. ResourcesChapter menu Quotes About Character “An individual step in character training is to put responsibility on the individual.” —Robert Baden-Powell

74. Copyright © by Holt, Rinehart and Winston. All rights reserved. ResourcesChapter menu Quotes About Character “Character is a by-product; it is produced in the great manufacture of daily duty.” —Woodrow T. Wilson